This isn't about whether you need to be a damn male model in order to get laid.

I spend time on the RSD forums as i'm sure some of you do, and in recent time there has been a big shift amongst the membership whereby it seems most agree that looks are 95% of 'game'.

I think it started when in one of his vids, Tyler seemed to backtrack on his former view, and implied that looks certainly mattered.

The view on the forums seems to be that If she thinks you're hot, you basically need to just not shit your pants and do something stupid and you'll get laid.

If she thinks you're not good looking, then nothing you say/do will get her in bed.

From 'taking the pulse' of reddit recently, I see that the theme is generally one that advocates opening direct, making your intent clear, and if she's not interested, move on.

That's all well and good, but to me, that's kind of agreeing with the idea that you can't 'game' a girl who just isn't into you.

I've personally never even managed to get much past the open when a girl isn't instantly receptive. I've tried various 'techniques'. Meeting her disinterest with disinterest, statements of empathy, making a joke out of it, just ploughing ahead etc....It's like, a girl doesn't want to even acknowledge you if you aren't her type on a cold approach.

I have managed to get a few lays under my belt last year and at the time I patted myself on the back, but I now kind of feel as though every girl I hooked up with was likely into me the second she laid eyes on me (no brag. This is NOT the case 99.5% of the time)

Going forward, i'm tempted to....well, not 'give up' with game, but maybe only approach girls who are giving me what I assume to be IOI's

(Is this something others here do? Would certainly be better for the ego. Getting rejected 40 times per night honestly doesn't feel nice. Trust me!!!)