Is one better than the other?

Personally, when I meet girls I look for relationships and someone I can really be intimate with - is this a bad thing? Am I an emotional pussy for thinking like this? Is it a good thing?

I'm just curious what y'all think of this. I'm 20 y/o kid in college, single and that's kinda what I desire. I've heard all sorts of advice/differing opinions and I'm just wondering what the mindset of you guys is. Appreciate it.