I’m 21 with a non-existent dating life. I’m not a Calvin Klein model, so I know girls aren’t just gonna fall into my lap.

I go to a SEC party school with a really good bar scene. I don’t drink though- I’ve never liked it very much. I’m not weird, I just want everything I feel to be “real” if that makes sense.

I feel uncomfortable in bars/clubs for this reason. I feel like an outsider (definitely not a good frame to be coming from). In every other place I’m decently witty/funny though (in my opinion). How do you think I can get past this mental block of feeling like I don’t belong?