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[–]7vedant 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You are overthinking it..just be you, man.. and if you don’t feel comfortable with you, forget girls for a bit and figure yourself out - no girl is going to mess w an insecure guy. Especially not the bad bitches nahhhmean namean
[–]Matayoman 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup. Master being in love with yourself, and let the rest fall into place. Desperate people find other desperate people. If you find yourself, and become solid, then you will meet the right romantic partner.
[–]loofyd 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
if you don’t feel comfortable with you, forget girls for a bit and figure yourself out - no girl is going to mess w an insecure guy
this is great advice
how to figure one's self out ?
[–]7vedant 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
My friend that is life’s long journey. Everyone’s journey is different, there is no blueprint, but what I suggest are two things r/spirituality r/semenretention . Meditation is the key to learning about yourself . Read from better people than me in those groups. Good luck to you my friend.
[–]loofyd 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Thanks
I'm already on Semen Retention
i thought the next step was to at least figure out how to kill my limiting beliefs regarding women and at least get normal with approaching and being playful with them
Hasn't worked out so far lol
Highly value your input though, my friend
[–]7vedant 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think this comes from the force other men put on us for treating woman like “woman” you know. What works for me is I treat a female (regardless of looks) like one of the guys , one of the homies, one of the smoke buddy’s. for me I do not care about opinions anymore, craft your personality into something you’d admire if somebody walked up on you, and if u found that, who cares anymore you know, jus be you.
[–]Matayoman 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here. I don’t approach girls differently than I would approach a guy. But to master that, can you successfully approach guys?
Be the mans man that everyone wants to be friends with and the ladies will notice.
[–]Hot_Focus4244 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
THIS IS THE BEST ADVICE I’VE EVER SEEN ON HERE
[–]CompetitiveAd4912 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You don't need a car
[–]altwh 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not having a car will hurt you anywhere un the US but NYC. In NYC, it's pretty irrelevant unless it's something that demonstrates a passion (restored/retromoded 1970 911 or something). Just don't insist on driving places when transit or Uber works better.
[–]FrostyPanda1191 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Incoming controversial advice: if being a virgin is affecting your confidence consider hiring a hooker.
[–]muff_marauder -2 points-1 points0 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
NYC is the toughest city in the world to date in, so you'll need every advantage to succeed. You have no idea.
Having a car is better than public transportation but a private car is even better.
[–]Nado155 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why is NYC the toughest city in the world to date in?
[–]Goopie215 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Very large population = more competition
[–]Alextryingforgrate 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You're 25, not 30.
First get to NYC, and start gaming. Then figure out if you really need a car. Dont get a car to impress others. You wont be happy. Yes its convenient, but you cant make out in the front seat of a car unlike in a cab.
Now your appartment, where are you living? Whats near by? Any bars, grocerie stores, cafes? Do you have somewhere near your place to take your date? Somewhere to get to know them?
On your route to work what is on the way to help you game?
Car? Who cares figure out these questions first. Youll find out that you really dont need a car but really just want one.
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