Does joining a 'lair' (like nyclair.com) actually help?

ngroot · 2010-02-04T17:37:43+00:00

It really depends on the guys in the lair. Most guys I've met have been supportive, into self-improvement, intelligent, love women, etc. Also, some have blown me away and shown me things I never thought possible, and have pushed me to open far more than I ever would have before.

Beware of guys with big egos, guys who talk a lot of game but can't approach/game, guys with negative attitudes about women, etc. You don't want to be those guys. (My Grandma used to say "You become you're friends.")

But overall, yeah join a lair. I think it will be an amazing experience.

BenedictKenny · 2010-02-04T18:09:00+00:00

It depends on the guys and the lair, AND where you are at in your PUA lifestyle.

Being a few years ahead of people, when your lair is full of people who just started, well...you know. At least you have wingmen, I guess. Still, some people can't even do that correctly.

It's subjective.

alphawolf9999 · 2010-02-06T01:13:13+00:00

Lairs are useful. Helped me a lot when I was starting. Some guys that are new can be annoying, but I was there once. It is important that you find wings that are joining for the SAME fundamental reasons. I.e. get as many lays as possible vs. finding a longterm girlfriend.

If anything, if gives you an indication of the skill level of the regional lair, which really varies from PUA to PUA. Most experienced PUAs I have met are very interesting people and have lives OUTSIDE of pickup, which makes them all the more interesting.

Title	Does joining a 'lair' (like nyclair.com) actually help?
Author	helpquit
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	February 4, 2010 5:23 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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