Il start by saying I know there's probably a better place to post this but this community has helped me a lot in the past and my way of thinking has been shaped by a lot of the veterans on here so I feel confident this is the best place to ask the questions I got.

First off I've made night and day improvements on game, gotten laid a lot this month (nearly doubled my numbers) thanks to some of the tips here, however- I am ashamed to admit that I have started relying a lot on the booze.

A few days before new years I had my worst blackout yet, and had a minor psychotic meltdown - so I'm told. Last night I got that drunk again but handled it much better but still made a total ass of myself and I feel disgusting about it. This was my rock bottom a d I've decided it's time to cut the liquor completely for a few weeks. Here's where I need you guys.

I am awesome and charismatic etc when I'm drunk, and that's why I drink. I get laid I'm smooth collected sharp and on my game. I don't want to be reliant on booze to be a fun me, because it's been really self destructive. Getting laid is awesome, but not when you wake up 20 miles from your house with an hour to get to work, and a splitting hangover.

In short, I want some tips from anyone who realized they were relying on that liquid charisma, and how they became that fun great guy/girl without it.

Thanks in advance.