so im reading that if you approach a girl and act too excited or too eager or too enthusiastic when with her or when talking to her its actually a bad thing because then she thinks you dont have options that youre excited to be with her that youre too happy to have her.

if you act too excited too amazed by her its putting her above you and she gets turned off by that because she thinks shes better than you because you dont have options like her or better than her.

this is espcially the case when shes good looking and you actually like her.

so you basically have to approach her and act and talk to her like she isnt a big deal and that you dont care and you dont really want her and her brain will start thinking you must have other options if shes not a big deal to you.

because if you act too eager too liking towards her she gets turned off. is this true?

why you cant be too nice to them because it turns them off.

she thinks why is he too easy? hes basically doing all the work for me.

this is the same as acting nervous around a girl. she'll think you dont have other options.

or acting with confidence around a girl. when you act confident around a girl she'll think you have other options.

this is also the same when youre texting a girl too much. her brain automatically thinks this guy has nothing else going on, what does he do with his life, just play on his cellphone all day and nothing else?

again. texting her too much makes her think you have no other options. no other girls to talk to. that she competes with for you.

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when you act bored around her her brain automaticallythinks he must have other girls why hes so bored around me

why treating her too good or acting like shes the one turns her off because she thinks theres no other options

or why acting like youre in love with her or acting like you like her.

again. acting like you like her gives her too much power.

as one pickup artist said flirting and relationships is just one big power game to women when they talk to and flirt and meet guys.

as mystery said. you cant do direct game because it gives them too much power and they get bored with too much power. why you have to do indirect game like talk to other girls so she sees you have game and other girls like and want you. she sees that.

if you do direct game its too desperate. its too needy. it gives her too much power. gives it away that you like her. too much power.

why she has to think you like other girls because you talk to other girls and they like you.

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some pickup artists even advocate never hitting on her at all because then she notices you dont hit kn her dont chase her dont approach her and she wonders why you dont make the first move.

some pickup artists even go to even more extreme saying you should act like youre not interested and act like you dont want her.

there are pickup artists that say if youre attracted to her then you shouldnt be talking to her because youll just lose yourself and put her above you.