emotional spikes

HomelessMilkman · 2026-07-16T09:31:56+00:00

What that means is not speaking in a dull, monotone, boring, flat manner.

If you want to convey excitement, intrigue, engage and entertain an audience in any respect, you have to present something compelling.

It's communication skills. There's a 'forced', unappealing, performative type of charisma that you'll find annoying. There's a relaxed but engaged, variable, expressive, fun, appealing type of charisma which you will see in (good) popular entertainment.

Pristineonk · 2026-07-16T06:56:27+00:00

you don't need them. Lots of boring dudes crush it for instance. If you are her type, you are her type.

But to answer your question, you can make her laugh, you can tease her, shock her etc etc

But you can't 'create' attraction in someone.

Nervous-Arrogance · 2026-07-16T09:47:16+00:00

This is more of a "when I speak to everyone" skill, forget seduction, this is communicating 101.

When you are talking, you need to go first. So make sure you feel a little bit of the emotion you want to convey (and have them feel) then say what you say. As opposed to speaking like a passionless robot.

This is also easy to practice as you can practice it with anyone and everyone, until it becomes natural.

Western-Month-3877 · 2026-07-16T11:10:51+00:00

Breaking rapport, framing, negging, breadcrumbing. Search all those terms in this sub.

ExtraordinaryBeetles · 2026-07-16T02:54:32+00:00

How do you create emotional spikes in men?

RakeChapman13 · 2026-07-16T01:20:45+00:00

Well you make sure it’s right kind of emotional spikes. Remember women’s sex drives are more reactive and less spontaneous. it’s more impacted by interpersonal dynamics, it can be easily be hurt by negative emotions. It’s really important for a woman to feel safe with a man. Their sex drives are so different than ours. For us a woman on a date could be so off putting, she could seem so unstable but yet we are still trying to be smash where as for women they can go from wanting to fuck this hot guy to be totally disinterested because he was rude to the waiter.

To create the right kind of emotional spikes you want to really connect with her, your interaction with her should have variety. playfully tease her without insulting her.
Create contrast so go from playfully teasing to giving a sincere compliment in a delivery that seems genuine, that evokes you want her to know you mean it and feel good about it. Don’t try to play it too cool, don’t be afraid to be emotionally impressive, show genuine excitement, curiosity and passion. Once you get a sense of who she is you can be polarizing In a way you feel would appeal to her as an individual furthering building chemistry between you two. Build anticipation by leaving things to look forward to and keep the interaction dynamic so she feels amused, understood, and excited to spend more time with you.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-07-16T06:48:30+00:00

IMO: The easiest way to create emotional spikes (that also aligns with seduction) is physical escalation to sex.

Just escalating itself creates these spikes. Keep your game simple. You already need to be thinking about physical escalation in your game, right? And you want to create emotional spikes too? Well lucky for you: Escalation does that as well, so you get a 2-for-1 combo!

Keep your game simple.

Prudent_Impact7692 · 2026-07-16T02:16:29+00:00

This is cringe and creepy. If she like you, she likes you. If she dont she doesnt. She will know after a milli second. Stop negogiating her attraction towards you. This is what makes it cringe.

Title	emotional spikes
Author	hyde1634
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	July 16, 2026 12:49 AM UTC (1 week ago)
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