What would be the best way to physically escalate when over at a girl's place? I have no problem escalating in a bar or my own place, but when I'm the one at the girl's place I feel like I don't have much control over the situation and I'm afraid I might come across rude If I try to start things at her place.

If it's my place I might say something like "let's watch a movie" and then we cuddle and move forward from there. But if I say someone like "Let's watch a movie" in her house she might think "Wtf is this guy telling me what to do in my own home" So I then kind of rely on her to move things forward (which isn't good i know)