So twice in the last two weeks I got the logistics, date, conversation, etc planned and got a lady back to my place. First time she said (and I do believe her) that she had a boyfriend, albeit one she was breaking up with in a few days. Second time she just said she wasn't that kind of girl. Also second time she just moved to the city, we had met that night, and she's finnish (idk what that does to this equation, im in Sweden right now).

Before I got into this stuff, I've had pretty much 100% if I get a girl back to the room, it's just that i only got them back farther along the process. Now I'm wondering: 1. Is it common to get women back into your private room and then meet some resistance (in both cases it felt odd because there was a clear interest and clear invite back to the room, how much more can I spell it out). 2. I know the basic LMR approach (within bounds, no one wants a creeper), but what is the average success rate?

Basically, is this an ordinary consequence of improving and getting more women back to the room?