Eye Contact Challenge

Murfdigidy · 2016-04-08T13:12:32+00:00

Its true eye contact is so so underrated and can be quite powerful. Here are my tips on giving good eye contact.... Whenever you first lock eyes with a girl DO NOT break eye contact until she does first. Here's the kicker, women are not used to it, they are used to guys giving a quick glance, and in an effort not to look awkward, the guy typical looks away first. So when you lock eyes some girls hang on for quite some time, so much so you want to look away it's so awkward but RESIST. This shows confidence and it puts you in a unique bucket.

Couple important side notes. It works more effective if you catch her looking at you first since if you're the one that initiates the eye contact you're the aggressor not her. It's not a huge caveat but worth mentioning, I'd still do the hold eye contact if you make the initial look first, but try to peek in the corner of your eye to see if she gazes first it's just a little more effective (but not a deal breaker).

Also when she breaks you do too!!! Do not keep staring and wait for her to look back, if she looks back a second time and catches you continuing to stare then you just look like a creepy ass stalker DON'T DO THAT!

This is important in conversation too, I typically only break when she breaks first, then I mix a few breaks myself during the conversation. But it's all about showing dominance as a male with the eye contact, it's one way to show you're a confident man who is sure of himself.

But some guys take it too far, don't be creepy it will work against you

Side notes on eye direction and what to look for when you see her eyes:

If she looks over your head she's not too impressed, it's almost a cocky way of her telling you you ain't all that. If she looks sideways with her eyes it 50/50 she could be interested but could be neutral. If she looks down and to your left, this is VERY GOOD, it means she's thinking about a feeling she's having at that moment, which could be "wow this guy makes me feel good". If she looks down and to your right its also good means she's still submissive but maybe thinking about what she'll say next. The best is if she looks down and then sweeps her head across the floor, she is Def interested or at least finds you attractive. These are generally pretty good indicators but by no means set in stone, for instance the girl that looks over your head may just be putting up a bitch sheild, through conversation you could build that attraction.

RickThacker · 2016-04-08T23:16:17+00:00

Absolutely have to be comfortable with eye contact. But better than forcing it is looking her in the eye with a happy, giddy enthusiasm. Smile with your eyes and look at her like you know something she doesn't.

And.. this is entirely unsolicited advice but NoFap really helped with eye contact and anxiety if you're interested in self-improvement..

hombrecito89 · 2016-04-08T17:57:10+00:00

Day 1: This is hard, I didn't expect it to be easy but fuck. I felt nervous walking down the street making eye contact. Particularly with attractive women. Not sure what it stems from. At least I made a concerted effort and can see clearly I have an issue.

In terms of conversation I'm reasonable comfortable making solid eye contact with men. However I'm not good with women. There was a new girl at our table during lunch who kept on making eye contact with me. I was very weak in this circumstance. But at least of got proper awareness of it.

I need to work on this and not shy away.

Title	Eye Contact Challenge
Author	hombrecito89
Upvotes	4
Comments	46
Date	April 8, 2016 12:26 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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