feeling frustrated

klogro8 · 2025-05-04T09:06:19+00:00

You’re outcome dependent and not escalating emotionally or physically enough. Numbers mean shit without tension. Fix your vibe, touch early, lead logistics, and seed sexual tension fast.

Western-Month-3877 · 2025-05-04T12:52:15+00:00

Like the other commenters said, escalate fast. Verbally and physically.

Don’t focus on getting her number especially on a night game. You gotta go past numbers close; set your goal to at least kiss close on the spot.

I wouldn’t even ask a girl’s number in a club. Fuck that. 99% it’s useless. It’s a “do or die” situation on a night game, whether you make out on the spot or not. There is no “call me tomorrow, ok?” It’s giving a false hope from her end.

Not to mention the vibe of a guy asking her number and she smiling and giving it to her feels like a losing vibe. I interpret her smile as “here, I give you the receipt of your loss.” If I don’t kiss close, I wouldn’t even ask for a number. I’d just leave her.

The story might be different if she gave you her number AFTER making out or having sex. But still, no guarantee she won’t ghost you. At least you did make out or have sex with her.

LoudCalligrapher0 · 2025-05-04T08:57:45+00:00

If you’re not getting the results you’re looking for, it means you’re not improving or progressing

Not getting kisses means you’re not escalating soon enough for one. Another thing is if you get a number before she’s somewhat invested in the idea of you, she’s not really going to wanna pursue anything with you 9/10 times

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-05-04T15:26:30+00:00

I second another commmet talking about the vibe. It’s all that matters really with logical stuff sprinkled in. You’re getting frustrated and giving off a weird energy. Until you fix that it’s gona be a grind

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-05-04T16:51:58+00:00

whoa take a step back and analize what you are doing, if your effort to success ratio is that low you are doing someothing wrong, go over to the books man; dont cherry pick stuff here on reddit.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-05-04T18:17:30+00:00

Don't try to compare dating to boxing. Win-loss records don't matter in dating. It only takes one good woman to win "the game." Focus more on getting to know women and not just being a dork focused on sex. Establish more goals and try to improve your skills of maintaining a woman who you enjoy for more than her looks. My ex-wife and I probably had sex over 2000 times. So what? It's just part of the puzzle but not the solution. Find someone who makes you happy and quit trying to be a player. You might be scaring most of these women away with your approaches if you come off slimy and desperate for hookups.

Title	feeling frustrated
Author	GettingMoneyTrapStar
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	May 4, 2025 8:10 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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