I live in a small studio in the city center in a European city.

I feel uncomfortable pulling to it because as soon as you open the door, the first thing you see is the bed. I have no seperate living room at all or a couch. I use the bed as a couch to watch TV.

I have pulled once and I think because I felt awkward it made the girl feel awkward. I think at first she wasn't comfortable sitting on the bed, but soon after she did, and then we did transition to a massage and then to sex.

My question is, how can I "frame" this better?

I make my bed every morning so it's not that I ask her to sit on a dirty bed. But it's still a bed.

Should I look for a bigger apartment with a seperate bedroom?