Female equivalent?

Dilpil01 · 2019-03-20T08:02:37+00:00

Without a doubt Matthew hussey would be the equivalent to me.

However the content is obviously different as girls face slightly different issues, but with the same fundamentals. He discusses attracting the right sorts of guys, dealing with rejection, moving on from relationships, creating attraction and desire, etc.

From a guys point of view he gives good healthy advice. A lot of them time he actually does a good job of rationalising a guys point of view, but putting it forward in a way that's digestable and not offensive to girls. For example one video he was saying how it's completely unreasonable to have a double standard that a guy is expected to pay for meals on a first date but girls shouldn't put out on a first date.

Similar to rsd it's relationship and dating advice that focuses on self improvement, being yourself and healthy, confident mindsets as being the key goal to success with the opposite sex. It's just dressed up a little differently towards a female crowd, it's not talking about hookup techniques for example because this isn't as important to girls.

loveopenly · 2019-03-20T04:34:43+00:00

Here is 30 days of Lidia going out to meet men

2018 Create Your Dream Relationship Challenge: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLumTQLWfsuI3EWdQdKbONGp6uBN-EBpHu

It's in my roadmap to help women. We have barely just begun.

Aranea101 · 2019-03-20T03:12:53+00:00

RDS?

dailymanup · 2019-03-20T04:43:05+00:00

r/fPUA

Aranea101 · 2019-03-20T03:12:30+00:00

If not, maybe you should start one?

brabg · 2019-03-20T12:42:51+00:00

Any female advice I know, only works with betas. It works well with betas, but doesn't works with alphas.

Unfortunately, women's instincts demand the man to have control, and seduction advice for women is all about trying to take the control. It either doen't works, or destroys the relationship if it works.

The only utility of seduction advice for women is to rapidly filter betas. But you will find that 99,9999% of men you find are betas or easily betaized.

Some men here, and even some redpilled woman will advice you to do things like "do not shit test", or "give sex, even if you are not aroused".

That's wrong. You need to shit test. It is up to the man to pass it. You need him to pass it.

And there is no point into having sex without enjoying it.

All that will mean that you, or any woman, will have a hard time finding a man. It is the sorrowful reality.

You need a [very scarce and hard to find] man to do the work, and he needs to find you, to choose you, to do the work, and to decide to keep you.

Most alphas don't keep women for long, because they have too much abundance. You have to be a top beauty, young, a good personality, luck, and accept him to have other women all the time.

stop-grass-genocide · 2019-03-20T16:34:27+00:00

Check out coach Cory Wayne. I found him very annoying army first but if you keep taking in his videos and his book it actually helps things make a lot of sense in dating.

TopClothes · 2019-03-20T20:20:33+00:00

FYI for people reading this, OP has stated that she's gay (and therefore is trying to date women).

That's going to affect everyone's answers.

Aghayden · 2019-03-20T21:05:27+00:00

The Art Of Seduction by Robert Greene is gender neutral and it has a lot of powerful points in it. The book is very amoral though, and some of the strategies/concepts are manipulative. Still, in terms of a book that can help you understand what makes people desire you (both socially and sexually) it's the best available.

In my experience, a lot of the concepts here really cut both ways. If a woman is confident, she holds strong eye contact, and she even takes the lead sexually that's extremely attractive.

There are some differences between men and women but they're not as big as most people think.

Women don't need to use game the traditional sense because they have no need to take the lead sexually, but since you're a lesbian, it would be to your benefit to learn how to be the initiator which is what you'll learn from RSD, Todd V., etc.

Plus, a lot of women are open to having a sexual experience with another woman (there's not the same taboo against it that there is for men. Plus, research has shown women are very fluid when it comes to sexual arousal, they're just as aroused by other women as they are by men even if they identify as straight) so if you learn the strategies men use to pickup women you can use the same stuff in your own life.

icecreamsandwichcat · 2019-03-20T05:52:58+00:00

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Title	Female equivalent?
Author	icecreamsandwichcat
Upvotes	7
Comments	34
Date	March 20, 2019 3:03 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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