Hey y’all, I went out yesterday again after not being able to go Friday so lll share what happened for the second field report I post here. So yesterday I went to my college campus because it was beautiful outside, and to no surprise I saw a lot of people out and about. As soon as I parked my car I complimented a guy walking his two dogs to try and build some momentum.Shortly after I see two girls walking towards me, one of them carrying a big case of beers so I say “Got some extras for me?” As they went past me. I saw another couple walking their dog a couple minutes after this so I told them their dog was cute, and this was when I started to feel more relaxed and free. Now that I was in a better state, I told myself That I had to at least approach one girl directly, when I saw a cute girl waiting at the bus stop. I stopped thinking about anything else except moving my feet towards her, but no matter how much I tried I couldn’t get myself to say anything, so I quickly cross the street out of awkwardness. I was a bit disappointed at first but I gave myself props for trying. Shortly after this I see a really cute brunette who was exactly my type who was walking a few feet in front of me on her phone. I knew she wasn’t really that busy so I couldn’t tell myself any bullshit excuse like “oh she’s doing something”, so I walk fast to catch up to her to the point where I’m right behind her, but again the anxiety was too much for me to be able to say anything, so I walked away from her as quickly as I could. After this I complimented a few more people as they walked by and then I left.
Takeaways: Taking action quickly makes all the difference, my mood was way better than last time
Giving compliments is becoming really easy which is nice ig
I just can’t start the conversation with any girl, no matter how much I try or what I do, and it’s really frustrating. My energy was great, I was feeling really good, and I still couldn’t manage to do it.
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