Hey y’all I decided to finally try cold approach since most of the time I would use dating apps but I was tired of all the shit on those. I am in college about to graduate, and I was just walking around my campus before I started work (I work on campus). I saw this pretty girl sitting alone on her laptop, so I decided to just go up and say hi. I sat across from her and we chatted for about 5 minutes about school and classes.

I then told her I had to go to work, so I asked for her number and she added it to my phone. During this whole conversation I was mad shaking cuz of my bad social anxiety and shit, so I tried to hide that best as I could but I’m sure she noticed lol.

I felt so good after this, it wasn’t nearly as bad as I played it out in my head. She was smiling basically the whole time, but I’m sure it was nervous smiling lol. I then texted her about 15 minutes later but she hasn’t responded and it’s been 40 min. I’m not all that worried because honestly I know nothing is going to happen most of the time with cold approaching but it’s definitely a good first step.

I just wanted to share my experience with y’all. If y’all have any tips about what to talk about with girls you cold approach, I’m all ears cuz it did get a little awkward cuz I didn’t really know what to say, I just kinda rolled with it, I’m super introverted and socially anxious haha.