So, this is a follow up to an /r/askseddit thread I made a few days ago.

http://www.reddit.com/r/askseddit/comments/1pxqmd/repeat_with_a_hottie/

The party started at our apartment around 8:30. My roommates and I had a shot or two and started to get things ready for the guests to arrive. That included getting parking passes for people and setting up beer pong. Fast forward a few hours later...

We already have a few male friends over and it's looking pretty sausagey. Two girls arrive and everyone starts giving introductions. I went high school with these ladies, so I give some hugs and high fives and don't really pay them much attention the rest of the night. Soon we have a few more people coming in, CAs knocking on our door with noise complaints and random neighbors.

So I had it set in my mind that I wanted to fuck the girl from my AskSeddit post again. Which is where I think my night started to tank. I started with outcome dependence. I could kino the girl. She was receptive, and I even hit her with a compliance test the night before by telling her to wear a dress for the party which she did. So I felt like while I had some good escalation and framing, my night was fixated on her.

I get pretty aggressive and competitive when drinking. Combine that with the outcome dependence, and I can't think rationally about anything. I shut myself away in my room for a good 10 minutes during the party because I thought that other attractive guys at this party would steal her away from me.

I eventually managed to have her isolated on the balcony. I got the k close and had some heavy make out. I tried to pull it back to my bedroom but the biggest issue came up right there. She came with two friends. One was pretty tipsy, the other was a DD. So naturally she doesn't want to leave them out at the party while we hook up. It pissed me off how logistics can just throw your chances away. I went to bed alone and pretty inebriated.

This all happened last night, and I apologize if the FR is rushed, but this is my first one and I wanted to just get my experience out there. If you need more details, I'll help out in the comments. Thanks for reading.