I made a post on here recently thanking you guys from helping me to get from socially awkward to getting a date with my celebrity crush. The term celebrity may have been a bit extreme. She is from a very well family of atheletes and she will be going pro within the next 3 years (most likely next year). I hear here on sportscenter when talking about her sport.

My friend knows her very well, and he told her about my crush on her.


First time I talked to her, she came into my work to work out (I work at a local gym)

  • Girl - So I heard you want to fuck me (I told my friend I wanted to fuck her the first time I heard he was friends with her)
  • Me - Thats funny, I heard the same thing
  • Girl - Gotcha.

And then she left. Weird response. I took it as a strong IOI. I put myself in her situation. If my friend told me this girl wanted to fuck me I would only bring it up with her if I wanted her. I was working, and was not going to stop her for any reason. I figure I will see her again, no need to stop her.


I then texted my friend the next day

  • Me: Double date, you and your girlfriend and me an mine. (She is living with him for the summer, and knew she would see that)
  • Matt: I don't think so man, she is pretty hard to get (called the bluff, probably her saying this)
  • Me: So am I, I am sure she likes the challenge.
  • Matt: hahaha, aight man we will see

A few hours later

  • Matt: You want to just come over? We really dont feel like coming out
  • Me: Sure thing Girl (I used her name obviously, but not releasing it on here. I just kept acting like she was the one texting me because I knew she was right there and was keeping tabs on the convo)

Here is where I wasnt really sure if this was FR worthy, because I did not do much. I was confident and did not treat her any differently than if she was some random girl.

We were just at his house, playing dance dance revolution and drinking. I didnt give her any special attention at this point other than some light flirting... some points I guess I can make

  • She wasnt drinking because she was training. I compared playing basketball at the Y to her almost pro career. Picking at her a bit

  • Was much better at dance dance revolution, and she was noting how good I am and I told her Ill have to teach her sometime. To which she replied 'Good luck' (implying good luck getting a date with her). I noted it was taboo to wish yourself good luck.

Really, I just talked to her, picked on her a bit. Nothing too FR worthy.

But I planned in advance and got a 'congratulations' card at the dollar store. I handed it to her in an envelope and gave it to her.

  • Girl: Whats this? (She opened it)
  • Girl: Haha, congratulations for what?
  • Me: I decided you weren't as bad as I thought. I know the coolest chuckie cheese we can go to.
  • Girl: I don't believe this. (the thought it was hilarious) Can you teach me to dance on our second date?
  • Me: What second date? (said it jokingly, she did not think I was actually implying not having one if it goes well)

my phone was on the table and she just went ahead and added her name in and sent a text to herself saying "Hey this is that funny guy from Matts house. I love you and want to marry you" to which she responded to herself saying "Things are moving a bit fast, lets at least see how the first date goes"


So that is that.