Hey guys. Let me start by saying that I met this girl on an internet dating site late last night where I asked her to meet me for drinks tonight. The online aspect went from instant messaging for an hour to a two hour telephone conversation (moving to the telephone was probably my best move of the night). So tonight I meet this girl at a bar near her place. She had told me on the phone that she used to be a stripper and was slightly ashamed of the fact. I'm usually very skeptical of all girls on the internet, but goddamn, I got really lucky with this one. When we met tonight she was straight beautiful. Great face, great body, and a pair of sexy fake tits to top it all off.
I have to admit, I've never been on a date with a girl this gorgeous. She's the type that any guy would turn his head after passing on the street. Moreover, she wasn't dumb as a brick and was able to conversate about interesting topics. But I digress...
My big accomplishment of the night was escalating kino. When she came into the bar I opened with a hug as opposed to a handshake. I arrived at the bar a few minutes before she did and grabbed a booth. This turned out to be very beneficial since I was able to gradually move closer to her as the night progressed. By the end of the evening my arm was around her and our legs were touching. Also, I made conscious efforts to touch her hands when emphasizing points in the conversation. Another good move was finding an opportunity to tell her a "secret," which allowed me to brush her hair to the side and get up really close.
I ended the night by reminding her that she had to meet up with a friend (she had mentioned it before we met). She hesitated at the thought of leaving me, but I insisted that she should leave and not stand up her friend. As we walked outside to call her a cab she interlocked her arm with mine. I took this as a great opportunity to escalate kino and held her hand. By this point I knew I was golden, but I iced the cake with a nice neg. She kept teasing me that I was too drunk to drive home. So I asked her to smell my breath and tell me what she thought! After I hailed down a cab and opened her door, I gave a her a kiss on the lips and she pulled me in for a 10 second makeout.
Obviously I am very happy about this date. I sent her a stupid text a few hours later and she responded that she had a fun time. I'm pretty sure (and excited) that a second date is in the near future.
Let me know if you have any advice or questions for this or the next date.
EDIT: I need some text game advice. How should I set up a second date? Hell, should I avoid texting and just call her (not my preference)? Also, whats a good location for a second date after a first date at a bar/lounge? We joked about going to the circus, but should I save that for a later date?
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