Ok here we go.

I went out two nights ago with a buddy, not really intending to game. I see a three set of girls who look like they just got off work at my favorite restaurant, so I open with something like “y’all have really good food blah blah” and it really kicked off from there.

We talked for about 10 minutes, and I really had my eye set on this one girl (let’s call her girl A), and after a while, I decided to try sort of a power move that was pretty risky. I just said, “Hey, I have to get back to my friend, but nice talking to y’all.” and just walked away. No intent shown, no kino, nothing. Just hugged them and walked off. I knew they’d be there a while, so I should have another opportunity to get a number close at least.

I think by doing this instead of talking to their group for a long time and trying to isolate the one girl away from her friends right away really showed me as high value and probably came across like I’m just a guy who likes to talk to everyone. Whatever it was, it worked. Girl A walked over to me about 20 minutes later and told me I had to go take shots with her, so she was clearly not ready to stop talking to me yet.

Once Girl A did that, I knew that was my golden ticket. All I needed was logistics. We had plenty of time to talk since it was still early in the night, so I didn’t push very fast. I waited to suggest any outcome of the night until she started some signals. She started talking about how she may be too buzzed to drive, her house is 60 mins away, etc. and I just said “I live close and have an extra guest bed. Stay with me”

None of it was a big deal. I just acted like everything was normal about what we were doing, like we’d known each other for longer. I showed her around my place, we tried to put on a movie but it wouldn’t work so we listened to music instead, and in about 15 minutes we were in my bed.

I’m really thankful to this sub. I had a rough year last year and have tried to transform myself and be a more confident, whole human. I’m happier in my own skin than I have ever been, and that’s what allowed me to pull this off I think. Anyway, keep working on yourself, and don’t be afraid to walk away from a set from time to time if you know you have the whole night to game.