this is the first time i write one of these out. our local venue was having a latino night type of thing, noches calientes or some shit, and i decided to check it out since i knew some of my friends were going. I get this weird sort of social anxiety when i show up to parties or clubs alone, so i took a walk around the block before eventually plunging in. i walk in and immediately go to the bar. A much older HB7, maybe early thirties, opens me and introduces me to her married HB8 friend. it turns out the married girl is actually really cool and before long we are having some very enjoyable banter about the mating rituals going on at the club. she sort-of becomes my wing-girl for the night. after i leave the bad i open maybe a 6 set, approximately 2-3 AMOGs, two HB6s and an HB8. turns out one of the HB6s is the roommate of a fellow officer from a student org i'm in. we were doing that thing where a circle of people all dance facing each other or whatever; yeah yeah not very interesting but i was at least having some fun. after a short while lots more people started showing up, including my guy-friends from the frat i'm pledging, this freshman HB9 i met two weeks ago who i've been interested in and flirting with for a while, this HB7, also a freshman, who i'm also interested in and who has been giving me slight IOI's since i met her at the same party i met the HB9 at, and this HB7.5 who is another officer in the same student org. I am greeted with big hugs and besitos by these girls and fives from the guys and at this point the socializing got alot easier as i knew a good percentage of the guys there. I got some easy teasing on HB9 since she awkwardly like changed her mind whether she wanted to greet me with the hug or the besito and pretty soon we're dancing reggaeton together. after some of that i move on to HB7 and we dance for a long time with flirting and plenty of kino. I'm perfectly comfortable during the reggaeton and pop songs, but things get a little harder as the music transitions to salsa and bachata. It know the basics of salsa, bachata, and merengue and am decent if not good at improvising, but what i hate about these types of dances is that you're expected to lead the girl through a synchronised dance and if you don't know many moves, you boring. plus at these latino nights in college i'm surrounded by AMOG vatos who actually grew up in the culture and know what they're doing. she ended up having to take the reins at some points (not good). I'm taking steps to improve myself in this area though, i've joined the campus salsa club. i really do enjoy dancing and cherish the opportunity, i feel like i was robbed of it being a latino who grew up in the US.

Anyways after a good while dancing with her, i decide it's time to move on to new people. I started approaching every group of girls i saw with no expectation, just like hey you ladies having a good time? and absolutely not lingering. a good amount of them reacted positively and i'd dance with them for a while.

Later on that night, they had a freestyle couple dance competition to some reggaeton music. i was talking to HB7 and her friend when it was announced, and the friend brought up the idea of her entering. at this point i was like what the hell and pulled HB7 onto the floor. we didn't do thaaat badly, we were maybe the third or fourth group eliminated out of six or seven or eight. that was pretty fun.

After the dance competition alot of people left. The only aforementioned people left were married HB8 and old HB7. they then had this game where they called out for 4 single ladies and 4 bachelors. i decided hell why not. the first part was the mate choosing dance. I was slow in realizing what was going and ended up with the least attractive of them, a 6.5, but i didnt care. next they gave each couple a worm and we each had one end and we had to chew it as short as we could. then they brought out some shots and the guys had to take shots from in between their girls legs (my girl was wearing a short dress). then we rotated. it was pretty fun.

after a bit more dancing with my married HB8 friend her friend HB7, the night ended abruptly as I got kicked out of the club for drinking (I'm 19)

tl;dr (whatever that means): went out and got into an optimal situation to get laid and blew it by indiscretion about my underage drinking, but still had a great time. you can start downvoting me for being stupid about drinking if you're like that.