let me start this post off by summarizing where i'm at. These past few weeks i've been adjusting to the frame of an AMOG, with noticeable results. I've done some work on my AA such that it's now a bit more accurate to refer to it as "approach laziness." As these changes sink in, our social circle gets more defined (its the beginning of the semester/year in college) and the ladies are noticing. i've been getting what appear to be IOI's pretty often.

Now the direction i want to go in/where i need help. I've been getting what i interpret as IOI's often from these girls in my social group, which is mostly latinos. However, i've noticed that they'll give the same or similar IOIs to other alpha guys as well. So as i attempt to penetrate the behind-the-scenes sexfest of college, i wanna know. Are these guys fucking these women? Is it safe to escalate on a girl who gives me regular IOis, or do i have to be the member of the social group who receives the biggest/most IOIs from her in order for her to be receptive? Or is a woman likely to be receptive to advances from anyone she gives IOIs to and most guys don't notice or don't know? Or they do know and do escalate/fuck them and this happens regularly? Also, a big reason i'm asking here as opposed to trial/error relates to another question. Is it dangerous to get involved with members of my social circle? I know girls talk to each other. alot. i guess what i'm afraid of is to try it on the girl i'm most attracted to, failing, and moving on down the line but the girls down the line already know about my previous attempts with the hotter girls via gossip and i end up looking needy/creepy/get expulsed from social circle. At this point i'd be happy with any of the top 75% of the girls in my circle (i lvoe latinas, part of the reason i'm in the place i'm in socially). I have yet to isolate any of these girls, and i want to be safe. help seddit?