[FR] Gave it a shot today

Skippy244 · 2015-10-06T22:30:29+00:00

Bro idk if its just me but I hate when people say my friends dared me to come talk to you... It shows you don't have confidence (even if they really did dare you), a confident person won't explain why he approached a hot girl. Just talk to her as if you're alone next time.

Murfdigidy · 2015-10-07T02:17:55+00:00

He approached and was nervous, give the guy a break for saying he was dared to do it. He knows not to say that anymore, the key is he had a conversation, the bigger key is to continue having more conversations with more women. That's the key to life practice practice practice! Only then will you be smooth enough, cool enough to attract just about anybody... Male or female

rawrdoublurawr · 2015-10-07T02:35:22+00:00

Agree with others that you shouldn't have told her you were talking to her because of a dare. Oh well. The worst part of failure is realizing where you failed. It sucks because you play the situation over and over in your head trying to find what you "should have" said. In reality though it's over, nothing you can do about it now. Be accountable. If you learned from it, it's a win. If you make the same mistake again, you're not being accountable. Most pretty girls are going to have boyfriends. Some may lie, but sometimes it's not even because of you. The thing I've realized is ITS NEVER ABOUT YOU! If you want a meaningful relationship with someone then you should always have the mindset that it's never about you. It's about adding value to someone's life. If someone values you then they value their relationship with you. They don't value you because of a pickup line you used or a dare you went forward with. They value your confidence in who you are as a person and how you make them feel. Even the greatest man in the world will never get anywhere though if he never puts himself out there. So keep putting yourself out of your comfort zone like this and keep working on being the best man you can be. There's always room for improvement. Good luck, bud. You're cooler than you think.

BrandonSullivan78 · 2015-10-07T20:00:45+00:00

Great start man! If you keep it up you will become much more comfortable around women.

The_Great_Donkey · 2015-10-07T02:15:40+00:00

I'm going to give you very brutally honest advice because I like you. You approached! Haha! Nice!

Someone already said this, but you know you shouldn't have spoken about the dare.
Dares... are just stupid lmao. You're an alpha male!
You should never wait until the conversation winds down. Never!!!!!!!! Always leave when you're in the middle of high and low. Or even high if you're a daredevil. Very important.
She probably rejected you and lied about having a boyfriend to be honest. But it really doesn't matter. You approached, you won.
Don't be such a nice guy. Flirt like a douche a bit. Everybody has their own style of flirting and their own personality. You can be a nice guy but you have to be a bit careful. Girls have a weird way of thinking. She'll probably just label you as a nice guy in her head which is BAD regardless of what BS girls tell you.
Keep on practicing through trial and error. Ultimately this is how we all get better.

Title	[FR] Gave it a shot today
Author	SeventhSentinel
Upvotes	21
Comments	17
Date	October 6, 2015 10:25 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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