Goals:

  • Approach one girl
  • Spend an hour across a couple venues

6P: Venue 1

Park, see a slender brunette with curly hair in a hot pink tank top and shorts, but I'm about to meditate, so I excuse myself and reason "I'll find her in there". Wander around for 10 minutes, dry, no prospects anywhere, wander around again and it's still dry. Is something going on today where I live?

7P: Venue 2

Usually around this time there are at least 5 or so pretty girls within the venue on a weekday, go in, again it's just dry as hell, literally no attractive women. Walk around for 20 more minutes and start to notice more and more how little others care about me meandering around. The old fear of people judging me when I was out that existed prior to my relationship came back up, but tonight it seemed to die slowly, give it another week and it should be gone.

Saw a car show down town and figured maybe most of the pretty women were occupied with that, I chicken out and go to another city close by.

7:30P: Venue 3

Go in, the aforementioned fear is nearly nonexistent, scope the venue out, literally no pretty girls.

Feedback:

  • Took action, went out, 80% is being there after all - stalemate ended!
  • Only opportunity I had was at the beginning and I backed out unconsciously; needed to jump out of my car and tell her genuinely I was about to meditate but she caught my eye and put my session on pause until I met her. Rejection or not it was a prospect, and unknowingly the only one this evening.
  • Taking action isn't hard once you're already out
  • Try earlier tomorrow (5-7P); no one cares about me wandering around, they all have their own insecurities and perceived realities to deal with - there is no spotlight