The other night, I went out with some friends (one girl who is really hot), and I just so happened to run into the girl from this post who gives me mixed signals. I use the term onetitis loosely, as I'm not obsessed with her, but couldn't think of a better term.

It was pretty awkward, mostly on her part. I tried talking to her a bit, but she was pretty fucking dismissive (not sure if it was because I was there with a really hot friend who was extremely flirtatious with me). Regardless, I decided I was going to hit on other girls. I originally was like "this is going to fuck with my state with her being here and all", but then I was like "no... this is night is for me".

I opened some girls, got shot down by a few, small talk with some other, and (yes) completely chickened out on others. Live and learn.

Girl Dancing

I opened one girl who was dancing with this guy (because fuck it). We chatted a bit, joked around, and then she straight up told me "just want to let you know, that me and this guy are just friends. We're not dating".

That should have been my cue to get the # and pursue further, but I didn't for some reason (I regret it now). Oh well, abundance. I continued talking to other girls, and innocently flirting with my hot friend there (arms wrapped around each other, dancing, etc) because screw it, I came out to have fun tonight.

Mixed Signal Girl

Again, I kept running into her (or at least saw her), and she seemed very insecure and nervous (her usual demeanor actually). I didn't see her flirt with any other guys and just stayed in her social circle. I went and met a few in her circle, and for some reason she was sort of dismissive anytime around her friends (pulling away, etc). But later that night, as she was leaving, we talked for a little bit and I grabbed her hand and she didn't pull away at all. My female friend who saw it all said "I don't know how you put up with that, she goes hot/cold on you like crazy".

I'm trying not to. And this is why I flirted with other girls even though seeing her there started being a little state killer.

Fun fact: I'm seeing her today due to a concert we planned months ago out in upstate (she's meeting me there). Any advice when I see her? Should I treat it as two friends going to see a show? (Note: I am sort of obsessed with this band, so I may even just ditch her to rock out.)

TL;DR Went out with friends, ran into this girl, she was a bit dismissive of me, decided I should go flirt with other women. For some reason I hesitated on getting one's # who was ready to give it to me. Also, Please read the "Fun Fact" above.