About me: I'm a 19 year old virgin in college. I've had anxiety problems my whole life but I think that I've finally arrived at the point where I can be charming and attractive to a lot of different women.

I was at this party and started chatting up this girl, and eventually we start grinding/hooking up. We head back to her place and make our way up to her bed. Clothes start coming off and it seemed like we were about to screw when she just flat out says "I'm not having sex with you." This is at a point where she has no clothes on and I only have boxers on. I wasn't upset, just a little confused. I started to finger bang her thinking that that might change her mind, but all she did was try to reciprocate with a dry (and rather unpleasant) hand job. A little time passes by and I just end up leaving her house with her phone number. Should I have done something differently, or is it just a normal thing to let a guy get you completely ass naked and then at the last second say that you are not having sex?