But the most important thing isn’t how women perceive your value. That’s a biproduct if how you perceive your own value. If you can feel like you’re bringing value to an interaction, you will feel confident to engage and become more able to raise the energy and vibes in the social situation - which is what value is about. Value has nothing to do with looks or money. It is 100% about how you make people feel. Money and looks can affect it, but at the end of the day how people feel is what matters. And you don’t need money OR looks to raise social value. Raise the joy and excitement of that conversation. And all that it is dependent on is you perceiving yourself as capable of doing that. If you realize that many social situations are low energy and somewhat painful, you are more confident in your ability to raise value. That’s why it’s harder to be confident around super high energy high value people, whereas if you’re around a depressed 80 year old in her armchair you’re going to feel much more confident raising value in that situation. Again, value is how much you positively effect another’s mood and overall vibe.

That is game.