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Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers

Dontmindthewalls

October 23, 2020

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Title	Game is NOTHING compared to face or height, watch how I end the conversation with just two numbers
Author	Dontmindthewalls
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	October 23, 2020 7:00 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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<Go check out Kevin Harts wife

Just be a rich and famous comedian who’s is most definitely an outlier , why didn’t I think of that?

Women dislike men the same height as them and that’s a fact, the CDC averages for a Woman is 5’4 four inches, however many of these women would refuse to date a 5’4 man.

A man's height determines his dating pool. Over 94% of women reject men for being "too short"

Stulp et al (2013) used a sample of 5782 North American speed-daters making 128,104 choices to determine preferences for partner height and how height influenced the formation of a match. They found that women were most likely to choose a speed-dater 25 cm taller than themselves, whereas men were most likely to choose women only 7 cm shorter than themselves. As a consequence, matches were most likely at an intermediate height difference (19 cm) that differed significantly from the preferred height difference of both sexes.

Their data can be further analyzed to provide data about women's height cutoffs, the benefit of each inch of height for a man, and the degree of competition each man faces based on his height.

1) Cutoffs:

Their findings demonstrated the cutoffs at which women consider a man too short or too tall:

90% of women will reject a man who is 5'4" based solely on his height. 65% of women will reject a man who is 5'7" based solely on his height. 50% of women will reject a man who is 5'8" based solely on his height. 14% of women will reject a man who is 5'10" based solely on his height. 1.5% of women will reject a man who is 6' based solely on his height. Past 6'2", women begin to increase rejections of men for being too tall. 30% of women believe there is no such thing as a man being "too tall." Over 94% of women will reject a man solely for him being too short.

2) Every Inch Counts:

Further analysis of their data demonstrates the importance of every inch of height for men, as two inches of height gain for a man can be found to have the following results:

A man in the 5'4-5'6" range will have more than double the potential number of female partners with 2" height gain. A 5'4" man will have 2.3 times as many potential female partners by gaining 2" height. A 5'7" man will have 1.86 times as many potential female partners by gaining 2" height. Benefits become insignificant past 5'10". Below 5'1" a 2" height gain also makes an insignificant difference, as even after 2" gain, a man at this height is still "too short" for most women to consider.

3) Competition:

Because the few women who are willing to date a shorter men are also generally willing to date a taller man as well, the competition for women willing to date shorter men becomes extremely high. This means:

A 5' man must "beat" over 12 men (most of whom will be taller) to get a girl accepting of his height. A 5'4" man will have to "beat" over 7 other men (most of whom will be taller) to get a girl accepting of his height. 5'10 to 6'4" men have the least competition as the demand for these men outpaces their supply, and statistically overall women must compete for these men rather than vice versa.

[–]Smugdemeanor 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Lol this made my day. So this is how research works: you come in with a bias, everything you find will confirm it. You could have easily found articles affirming that height doesn't matter. Anywho... Nothing you've said is wrong, being short is a disadvantage. But it's not insurmountable. It's not that you're going to end up alone, it's just that you're going to have to go through more girls till your find one for whom your height isn't that big an issue. As Mark Manson put it in models, why would you want to be with a woman who is turned off by your height? That's neediness and is a turn off. It's about them not you. You can't do much about your height so stop focusing on it. What you can do something about: 1. the number of women you approach and make your intentions clear to. 2. How you dress. 3. How you carry yourself 4. Your smile. 5. Your muscularity (whether you gym or not) 6. Your grooming. 7. Your hobbies and lifestyle.

Height is but one thing component in the melting that is attractive traits.

Also, if tinder is a waste if time if you are wittier than you are handsome. You're better off, for your sake and the women's, if you approach them in person when you have a chance to convey more about you before they make a superficial judgement on your height/looks alone

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You are not ugly. You just might not be someones cup of tea. You can improve yourself in other ways including how you dress, body language etc. Yeah, not being the ideal look makes it hard, but there are a ton of short guys with nice taller women. It just requires more effort to find them which plays into the numbers game.

There are tons of videos on youtube of guys that are just god awful from a male perspective looks wise and they still succeed. I don't want to mention this ugly South Asian that was in the UK who was like in his 50s, but managed to still succeed. On a side note, I think he was arrested as well because he was being stupid with underage girls...

TL:DR being short and not having the ideal looks makes it easier for you to pass on women who would play games with you if they are that shallow.

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