get me back into the game

tommyschoolbruh · 2009-12-18T02:47:06+00:00

This is a phase in pickup. You'll get through it. It's hard when people have you at a certain place in their mind. They see you as a guy that doesn't get all the girls. When they see you change, it messes with the pecking order.

They wouldn't know you were "in the game" if you weren't TALKING about it. The first rule of pickup is don't talk about pickup.

You can talk about it with other PUA's or with guys that get a lot of girls (naturals). You just need to not talk about it. Learn it, live it, use it, but don't talk about it. The world isn't ready for it yet. It won't get really big until dads start teaching their sons. We're about four years too early cuz the scene didn't hit till '04 for real.

You might bounce over to Rooshv.com and get his book "Bang". It walks right through his life from college guy getting friended to top of the game. It has tips/strategy and a lot of truth. It's like $10 used off amazon. Shipped.

It helps to see a couple guys go through it. Oh, also you can start at the first page of http://thedatingcroniclesoftylerd.blogspot.com/

He starts on page one two years ago and walks you through how it went for him. He hits the period you're dealing with early.

Good luck!!

Wintamint · 2009-12-18T08:42:05+00:00

You should check out "The last lecture." To summarize, the obstacles you have encountered are there for a reason. You either endure, or you quit. How important is the game to you? There is no right answer, just do what makes you happy. Personally, I'd stick to it, it sounds like there is real change going on in your life, and the people close to you are holding you back.

tommyschoolbruh · 2009-12-17T17:45:36+00:00

why is this getting downvoted?

lachumproyale1210 · 2009-12-19T08:27:19+00:00

Take a deep breath and relax. Browse reddit! All of it, not just seduction and sex.

Minds are weird things - the game is a testament to such a statement. It is the art and science of getting two brains of opposite sexes to be on the same sexual plane.

My advice, FWIW, is to focus on yourself. If that means carrying on with the game (and it probably does) then go forth and open. It is no coincidence that you come to r/seduction with problems that are larger than just women: the game is pretty significant, as far as human males go.

But no man is whole practicing only pickup. take stock of life: friends, family, girls, career, etc. Think about it (but not too much) and then just put your head down and truck through it. Life isn't over until you're dead.

Horatio__Caine · 2009-12-17T16:18:36+00:00

If your friends get mad at you for picking up a girl at a bar, then you need new friends. Also, if you help them improve their own game, they'll forgive you and you'll be able to sarge together.

Title	get me back into the game
Author	tommyschoolbruh
Upvotes	13
Comments	17
Date	December 17, 2009 4:15 PM UTC (16 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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