Background: In my mid-late 20s, fuck-closed a 42 year old cougar I met via Tinder. I did pretty well in the sack, made her cum 9 times (she was keeping count) so I wasn't lacking in the sexual department. Post-sex, she was very affectionate, watching me while I was asleep (so she says), cuddling, playing with my hair, holding hands while asleep, deep/meaningful pillow-talk etc etc

After a fuck close, I usually send a "was nice to meet you/thanks for a great evening" type of text, which I did the day after I fucked this cougar. She replies back saying she had a great time too. I ask how the rest of her weekend was, and....nothing. No response. I kept all my texts leading up to the date (and afterwards) short, and straight to the point and texted her less than she texted me.

It's been a couple of weeks without a reply, and I'm not one to double-text. I was hoping for a FWB/fuck-buddy but it looks like that isn't happening.

So...where can I improve and convert fuck closes into FWBs, 2nd/3rd/4th dates and beyond?

Possible reasons why I got ghosted

Factors not in my control that I can't change: Her work schedule, other shit going on in her life (kid custody battle, moving house, sorting out stuff with her divorce etc etc). I can accept these.

Factors in my control: My text game, my sex game, general dating game. I can change/improve these.

So with that in mind...possible reasons are:

1. I wasn't good enough in the sack ...this one seems unlikely. I did make her cum 9 times lmaooo. She wasn't shy about telling me what she wanted either and I'd go harder/slower/gentler and responded to her vibe...she actually put effort in, she didn't just lie there doing nothing so that suggests an interest/enjoyment of the sex too.

2. It got emotional too quickly. This one isn't really my fault, I just felt that was the direction she was going with her pillow talk and the kino so I went with it. Plus I know that some women can be emotionally vulnerable after sex and need a guy to be affectionate so that's what I did. She was going through a pretty shit time (work stress, in a divorce/custody process with her husband etc) so I wanted to make her feel better and take her mind off things.

3. I was too sexually tender/affectionate/caring, which may have come across as needy/beta

Also my general style of sex is mostly affectionate, lots of kissing, going down on them, stroking their hair/face, telling them how I think they're beautiful/lovely, getting present to their feelings/emotions in the moment etc etc. I will still do some rough stuff like throw them around the bed, thrust/jackhammer hard, pull their hair, choke etc...but most of the time I am quite gentle/tender/affectionate. I am unsure as to whether the affectionate approach comes across as being needy/'nice-guy'/beta. If so, that would turn a girl off.

4. My post-date text game sucked. As stated, I didn't text much and it was only after asking how the rest of her weekend went that she ghosted me. I am unsure as to what specifically turned her off. If I knew, I could improve/learn from it.

So....any ideas as to what went wrong, and how I can improve for subsequent girls? Anyone been in a similar situation where you got ghosted after fuck-closing?

Much appreciated guys!