I am a 25 male living in the dmv area. I have never had a gf(dont want a relationship anyway) or sex. I've been out the past few weekends but have had no luck getting anywhere with the ladies. I usually get 1 number per night at best and have yet to get any reply. The bars are very load so i cant really have decent convo though im kinda socially awkward anyway.

I'm having a hard time understanding how to get laid. I am 6ft 2 ,185 lbs and just started lucrative career. I lack a decent social circle since every one at work is married and i came from out of state 6 months ago. My roommate isn't much of a ladies man so no luck there. I'm wondering if i should just stop going out for a month or so since I don't wanna get drunk every weekend. I don't wanna wake up at 30 in the same position as it is frustrating enough at my age. I probably need a hobby but anything with cardio in it will undo my gains from the gym. PS: this a non-sober rant