Got a dinner date, how to make sure conversation flows smoothly

ResistingTemptation · 2015-08-16T16:09:58+00:00

The day before the date, text her 'I'm looking forward to our date. See you tomorrow. x'

Her response will tell you whether she's interested as a friend or a date.

Conversation-wise, you have mutual friends. There is a fuck load to talk about. 'What do you think of Jeff?' 'Did you hear what Bill said?' 'Have you seen Taylor lately?'

Then just get to know each other better. Try to do some natural kino; fake palm readings work well.

Just remember silences don't have to be awkward unless you make them awkward. Keep good eye contact and confidence. Just say genuine comments or what you think. A compliment or two will allow you to kino e.g. you look like you have soft hands (grab).

Conversation should be natural. Escalate kino thoughout the date if you can.

Choose the venue; one that you are familiar with or perhaps even know the staff (social proof). A booth is ideal as you can sit opposite at first then get closer as you establish comfort. Don't worry if you can't get one though. Just do something after. Good luck.

Dadoma · 2015-08-16T16:27:57+00:00

Ask questions and don't give a shit. If she's interested in you she'll start to ask you questions back. So if you ask something and her response is like... yeah I did that when I was X in Y because Z you can then either ask a question regarding topic X,Y or Z. Also try to avoid conversation breakers like changing subjects suddenly for example if she says:"Yesterday I was at the hair salon and there was this funny man with a toupey(no idea how it's spelled srry) standing next to me and I just couldn't help but grin the whole time I was there." you don't respond with: "Oooh that's niice - yesterday I was at the zoo looking over the seal exhbit, they were being fed and were making cute sounds." That kind of thing interrupts the flow of conversation. It's sort of like her laying the foundation for a house somewhere and then you calling her to help you build your house about 100km away. A conversation is like a work of architecture you must both be cooperative and build it together.

whitewater09 · 2015-08-16T17:50:50+00:00

so I'm going along with it.

Make sure you're (generally) taking the lead - especially with logistics.

katalis · 2015-08-16T19:56:26+00:00

Invest and make her to invest. Talk about your passions. Ask her about her passions. I love psychology and social dynamics so I usually talk and show some techniques I've learnt. I talk about what I want to do in life (help people) and I ask her about hers. Don't talk for too much, tho. I talk intensively and everything, but I don't do a monologue.

That_mullan_man · 2015-08-16T15:31:38+00:00

Sounds obvious but pay close attention to what she's actually saying. Things she says or might suggest can spark more conversation, ask questions, tell stories of similar experiences and SHOW INTEREST even if you don't care. Apart from that be yourself, you'll be fine once you get into the flow of the date!

MassiveDongs · 2015-08-16T15:47:12+00:00

If you run out of things to say just whip your dong out and place it on the table. Super alpha.

Title	Got a dinner date, how to make sure conversation flows smoothly
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Date	August 16, 2015 2:33 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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