I (19M) just got friend-zoned by a friend of mine. We met one month ago as university kicked off , and I thought we had chemistry. Today I told her how I feel, she said that she knew already and that " it's only been one month and who knows what can happen ". She wants to stay friends like before. But I don't know, she didn't seem so sure about what she was saying.

I got over it pretty quickly, I don't feel sad at all and I'm already thinking forward. But I'm pissed off that I spent one month going out with her , flirting etc for nothing. So I want to try to make her fall in love with me.

Since we are in the same social circle at university, I'm afraid that things will be a bit awkward at the beginning. So what I ask is this:

  • do you think I should just behave normally like before, and at the same time pursuing other women, to see if she starts to chase me,

Or

  • completely freeze her , avoid her and make her miss me?

PS: sorry for my English.

Thanks.