Had sex on first date, regret it

_JasonX_ · 2021-07-13T11:18:24+00:00

Post nut clarity hit hard this one

MmmNeapolitan · 2021-07-13T10:46:36+00:00

Tis better to have fucked and lost than to have never fucked at all

revente · 2021-07-13T06:26:03+00:00

Lol, i’m pretty sure that’s her who used you for sex, not the other way here.

Call her and see if she’s up for a second date.

GodsGunman · 2021-07-13T08:23:14+00:00

She likes to fuck quickly, considering you didn't even want to kiss yet, you should think about it and decide if she's for you or not. Don't try to control her

LegalFinch · 2021-07-13T21:15:07+00:00

Give me her number. I’ll meet up with her to sort it all out for you.

shitmcshitposterface · 2021-07-13T23:09:27+00:00

You can still get to know her? I don’t really get what the problem is here

letsgetrandy · 2021-07-13T12:14:31+00:00

Get out of your head.

I actually like this girl

You went on ONE DATE! You don't know that you like her. And it's way too early for all that sentimental shit. Sex on first date is exactly what you're supposed to do!

Now call her, tell her you really enjoyed meeting, and ask to see her again in a few days. And if she wants to fuck again, then do it!

Papa_Musk · 2021-07-13T10:22:51+00:00

name doesn't check out

capod0n · 2021-07-13T15:11:02+00:00

That's the way to do it. If you did not fuck her then and there she wouldve found someone else who wouldve done the same thing you did. Stop overthinking, they like to fuck as much as you do.

bfmdpms · 2021-07-13T23:56:51+00:00

Be happy you took action even if it was awk car sex. Girls like sex just like you. What girls don’t like is a guy that’s so interested in them they won’t take certain actions in obvious situations or the opposite for that matter. I’ve been there, the problem is it tends to falsely indicate certain things about you.

If you don’t take action in those situations girls might think things like: 1. Maybe you’re too low value for them (which you’re not brother, that’s just what they might think). 2. You can’t read female / social cues. 3. Backwards Rationalization. They’ll backwards rationalize that THEY weren’t interested in YOU. Basically, if y’all had sex, later she’ll think to herself “we had sex because he’s funny, cute, etc etc” if you didn’t have sex, later she’ll think to herself, “we didn’t have sex because he’s isn’t [fill in whatever blank.]”

Savageseeks · 2021-07-14T01:46:10+00:00

We call it “post nut clarity” because you’re acting on instinct until that moment it lets you go and your “logical” mind kicks back in.

Your logical mind is telling you that you did wrong, it should’ve been different, you don’t have sexual on the first date with someone you’ll be with “long-term”, etc, etc.

It’s not real bro. Ask yourself why you’re thinking these thoughts. I can almost 100% guarantee the only “issue” will be you holding on to these feelings and acting guilty as if you did something wrong. YOU decide how the situation goes and she WILL follow your lead. Unless she doesn’t. Then, whether you think you like her or not, you let her go. You can only be with a woman who follows your lead.

ErikBigCowk · 2021-07-13T06:54:46+00:00

Aaaaah don't worry lad i am sure u had fun and she too there will be other chances talk to her and tell how u feel if u really like her but stop worrying about this

TheDroidNextDoor · 2021-07-13T08:00:35+00:00

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userisauser · 2021-07-14T00:48:49+00:00

You regret it because you're disappointed that she didn't live up to the identity you projected onto her. Shes not the girl you think she is and kudos to her for not lying to you and making you wait. Fooling you into thinking she's what you want her to be.

TheLastCoagulant · 2021-07-13T17:54:23+00:00

Shut the fuck up.

l0s3rSant0s · 2021-07-13T15:39:29+00:00

tell her that

CautiousAbility5963 · 2021-07-13T17:29:00+00:00

There is nothing wrong with developing feelings before having sex, I guess next time you will know better

lameo312 · 2021-07-13T21:47:38+00:00

You can still chase her lol

crippleguy24 · 2021-07-14T23:15:14+00:00

troll lol

GroundbreakingAd8077 · 2021-07-15T22:06:39+00:00

I had sex on the first date with a girl, we had a great relationship, quick connection is not a bad connection

Had sex on first date, regret it

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Title	Had sex on first date, regret it
Author	SwaglordDaGod
Upvotes	54
Comments	45
Date	July 13, 2021 6:00 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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