Handling the Depression of a Failed Attempt

blackdown · 2012-02-11T10:38:04+00:00

Next time you know to fight back against the AMOG, bro. Learned something. Every time you get better.

PyouA · 2012-02-11T19:18:37+00:00

If done right this is the best way there is to spin a critique from girls:

Discuss with them what you should have done. Be confident about it and argue where you disagree, but have an open mind and listen to what they say. If this happened to be I'd say, "what do you want me to do? Fight this guy over two girls that I just met and that are his friends? I thought you were cute and everything, but there are plenty of other cute girls here that don't involve me squaring up with some asshole to talk to."

Then they would say something back, maybe, "you didn't have to fight him, just don't run away from him and be intimidated by him"

Then you say, "I guess, I've just gotten into too much shit for talking to the wrong girls. Maybe I call it quits too early now as a result, you two are real cool though, (and transition).

Boom. Problem solved, plus you are getting an accurate critique from a feminine perspective on where you are fucking up while your openness in discussion shows confidence and affords you the opportunity to flaunt your social awareness.

30vanquish · 2012-02-11T11:55:03+00:00

Remember your mistakes. Then learn that concept. Keep at it. Always in your control to think of it as "depression" or another lesson to learn from.

fluidkarma · 2012-02-11T16:27:00+00:00

Just take it as a critique on your approach and use it to improve your game...

2012-02-11T17:06:05+00:00

Don't beat yourself up, be positive that you tried. If you beat yourself up about things gone wrong you are more likely to freeze up and make the same mistakes again.

revbobdobbs · 2012-02-12T20:40:07+00:00

But them verbalizing my failure to "man up" put me in a depressive mood.

You are having serious problems with your own sense of value. Deal to that. That's a game killer.

Take some serious time to reflect on your own sense of value. What do you have to offer the world? What unique gifts do you bring? How are people better off with your presence?

Title	Handling the Depression of a Failed Attempt
Author	nate_king1
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	February 11, 2012 10:30 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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