Has any guy here been for coaching and did you find it beneficial?

JosephfromAandA · 2022-09-09T16:43:06+00:00

I’ve had coaching and benefited.

With regards to your issue though - have you already gone out approaching with others in general?

BeastPsychology · 2022-09-09T15:26:07+00:00

Just do it.

When you need help to level up, sometimes you just need an expert.

You can either spend countless hours, days… fuck your whole life feeling how you do and procrastinate.

Or you can hire a pro, and learn from them.

OrzhovPalatine · 2022-09-09T18:54:48+00:00

I did get coaching and went to workshops but I'd say I learned alot more from my fellow students rather than the coach himself.

Its key you find a coach that fits your vibe. When you start you will get into the habit of mimicking them and if you're not anything like the coach in question you're get discouraged quick. I wasted a good amount of cash going through a couple of coachs until I found one that I felt fit my style.

For example if you're really introverted you should pick a coach that's more laid back and low energy. If you're extroverted pick a coach that's very bombastic and high energy.

Competitive-Bill-612 · 2022-09-09T17:03:03+00:00

Never really got a coach. I was self taught through YT videos and alot of experimenting. In my opinion nothing beats practical hands on experience ie actually just going out there and doing it. A coach can show u the way for a month or even 2, but sustainability is all on you.

That being said, Ive had the good fortune of finding a few like minded individuals in the field and we constantly pushed each other, hype each other or laugh off any setbacks we have. I wouldve never gotten as good without them.

If getting a wing is not possible i suggest acclamating to the concept of approach: just go up to a girl; ask for directions - giving simple walk off compliments - having a short convo - eventually just being direct. The more you do this the more you realise most of AA is in your head.

Learning canned material and having a few simple conversation openers can go a long way for training wheels. After awhile you get so good you just free style it and it becomes natural.

Celebrate the small victories instead of getting hung up on numbers and lays.

Lastly, good luck out there.

JakeDaAussie · 2022-09-10T03:41:40+00:00

I’d like coaching so it forces me to approach and I don’t just sit on the fence. But my concern would be after the coaching I’d go back to my old ways of not doing the approaching. That’s where a wing would help a lot. But also I guess you really need to be able to rely on your self and keep your self accountable

UncommonSense89 · 2022-09-10T15:12:52+00:00

Yeah I've had coaching. It was good. Gave me some good techniques but most of all it opened my eyes to what was possible.

It's actually easy to approach, especially if you're in a good mood. Girls feel that vibe and want to be a part of it. Always go in with a good relaxed and positive mindset.

If you're gonna do it in a noisy bar or club go in with golden retriever energy who's just about to go for a walk.

Got a massive boost in my confidence and I lost my virginity afterwards. The girl who I lost my virginity to was wrapped around my finger cos of the techniques I learnt.

Mind you this made me an arrogant and at times toxic person. I learnt to calm that down a bit. But it's hard not to be like that when you think you've got it all figured out.

Good luck OP

kettlebell_workout · 2022-09-10T05:40:35+00:00

Just do it yourself.

It is like asking for a mom to hold your hand while learning to walk.

mishka_444 · 2022-09-11T23:57:45+00:00

do not get a coach pick up is trash u can look up online all the reasons why

Title	Has any guy here been for coaching and did you find it beneficial?
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Date	September 9, 2022 3:10 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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