Having problems with body language. What is your personal tip when it comes to your own body language?

andrewtherenaldo · 2012-10-30T01:51:32+00:00

Chest up, shoulders back, chin slightly up, core relaxed. Imagine a string attached to the top of your head, pulling you up. Talk loud, Eye contact. These are the basics.

When sitting, take up space, spread your legs out, if it feels slightly uncomfortable at first, your doing it right. When standing, don't hold your drink in front of your chest, hold it at your side. Stand with your feet apart, wide stance. Don't be afraid to take up space.

ghlibisk · 2012-10-30T06:34:20+00:00

http://www.cajunsblog.com/posts/advanced-body-language/

This guy has some of my favorite insights on body language and how it relates to seduction. There are also parts 2 and 3 on his blog, which are just as good.

Fleap · 2012-10-30T12:52:17+00:00

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charliedouglas123 · 2012-10-30T13:17:56+00:00

Watch Skyfall. Copy Bond.

His body language is superb the whole way through in terms of being the alpha male.

SantonioHolmes · 2012-10-30T05:09:54+00:00

Pay attention. Be consciously aware of your body language at all times. If you notice yourself slouching, straighten up. If you notice you just put your hands in your pockets, take them out. If you notice your arms are folded, unfold them. Eventually you'll stop doing these things altogether.

skeletondog · 2012-11-01T09:04:24+00:00

Rotate your wrists outwards slightly, it pushes your shoulders back which in turn pushes your Chest forward and posture up.

le-bravery · 2012-10-30T03:09:58+00:00

Relax. Everything else comes naturally. Do what's comfortable. Actively changing your body language to appear alpha is changing your body language for other people, and is therefore, beta.

Title	Having problems with body language. What is your personal tip when it comes to your own body language?
Author	Fleap
Upvotes	9
Comments	25
Date	October 29, 2012 11:37 PM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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