How did you become confident?

revente · 2022-06-13T12:27:15+00:00

By repeatedly doing shit I was scared of.

Jtenka · 2022-06-13T17:22:50+00:00

By understanding the worst a person can say is no. Then you never speak to or see them again anyway.

Worst case scenario is that everything in your life stays exactly the same way it is now.

yobro_2521 · 2022-06-13T17:10:15+00:00

This post and these comments are just what I needed. I had low confidence and was scared to do anything. Now slowly getting better at it.

Liberaler · 2022-06-13T16:30:45+00:00

When I realized that everyone in society is mostly concerned with themselves, not whether I'm acting a little more or less cool.

chen614 · 2022-06-14T06:50:17+00:00

Working on yourself like you’re doing. Learning you can’t please everyone and that not everyone is going to like you and that’s OK. That’s on them. For me, getting older helped but more so was me recognizing I was trying to hard to make others happy but not myself.

jaysucess1_ · 2022-06-13T14:03:54+00:00

Doing things you’re scared of.

dametime223 · 2022-06-13T21:02:19+00:00

By keeping quiet promises to myself, those that I could break and no one would know. But I didn't. For example, going to the gym and sticking to a routine, passing an exam etc.

Basically if you improve yourself you gain confidence.

amazingbrotherpopoff · 2022-06-13T17:39:17+00:00

meditation and being sure in who i am outside of anybody else

Ava-Ablaze · 2022-06-13T12:17:03+00:00

Those are great ones!! Humility has helped me. Recognizing that the person I'm with is an expert of themselves. It really helps taking a student approach, using each interaction as a learning experience.

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-13T12:23:54+00:00

Maybe some people have some sort if vitamin deficiency or their diet is not suitable to them so they need to get checked.

Yeah getting out of your comfort zone is how you build up confidence

Amikatey · 2022-06-13T18:35:07+00:00

Thats how to do... NO MAGIC PILLS.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-06-13T18:38:14+00:00

getting results

anonychef117 · 2022-06-14T09:48:06+00:00

I was but somehow its gone backwards. Ive always been intoverted but i need to achieve core 100% confidence

noviccii · 2022-06-14T11:41:20+00:00

Shy guy to socialite here

It took me a hard case of depression and a suicide attempt to become confident.

After therapy I just decided that it is my life and I am the one in charge.

One thing I learned and always sticked to was this metaphor. Your life is like a car. It is your car, you are behind the wheel. You decide which direction you want to go in. Everyone else is in the backseat. The people in the back can either enjoy the ride or step out.

The moment you realise that you will be ok no matter what happens you become very powerful.

examine8 · 2022-06-14T14:03:12+00:00

Realised I was generally better than most other men lol

Title	How did you become confident?
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Date	June 13, 2022 12:12 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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