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[–]Therocksays2020 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
You physically escalate during the date which leads to ending the night at someone’s house. Meeting halfway would be an issue because then you are relegated to hooking up in the car.
Get drinks close to her place, makeout and ask if she wants to get out of the bar and go from there
[–]MayhemReignsTV 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Ever heard of hotels? Get yourself a nice luxury suite and some fine wine and nice music 😂 yes, I have actually done this. But if you want to see her for more than one night, Motel 6 isn’t going to cut it. While how rich you are may not matter, a woman never wants to feel cheap. Even if she is only looking for cheap thrills for the night 😉 by the way, only casually bring up the room when it feels right and make sure you both pay. You don’t want to be perceived as lower value by being willing to foot the bill for everything. Obviously, if you asked her out, then paying for the date itself would be appropriate. If she wants to pay for herself, let her.
[–]Therocksays2020 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I’m not spending 100-150 bucks for a hotel to get laid.
[–]MayhemReignsTV 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Nobody said you had to. But you got somebody here whose circumstance might warrant it. The meet in the middle date. Of course, if he’s willing to wait, he could use the first date as the seduction and make the full trip next time.
[–]atomant88 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
hotel dates can be great but i wouldnt drive 2 hours unless it was a sure thing anyways. time is valuable.
[–]atomant88 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
every relationship and date and hookup and person is different. but the framework of game is pretty flexible and can apply to almost any situation. study the game. then execute. then review what you did wrong and try again
some hookups take zero work. some take a lot of work.
[–]spiderSlayerr -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
At 24 you should be staying up to date with the new animes released and playing outside with your friends.
[–]Flames57 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
for a second I thought you meant 14
[–]CometAzur42069 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
2 hours away is a logistical issue, people date people in their vicinity. This isnt ideal.
However if she agrees to meet you and hopefully she doesnt stand you up, then you’re 75% there. All you need to do is chat a bit, learn about each other, then get closer and touch her body. Start with a hug, then as you guys converse and are more comfortable. Try hands, arm or waist (if she has jewelry, tattoos etc you can ask about them by touching gently and respectfully) walk closer to each other (walking in an interesting area is a great date). Then just go for the kiss.
If she is receptive to that all you need to do is finish the meal drink and ask if she wants to go back to your place or something.
[–]Avidclimber1234 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get some drinks in you guys, if you uncomfortable making moves in a busy atmosphere ask if she wants to go for a walk. Then during your walk find a good time to go for a kiss. If you guys get heated ask if she wants to go somewhere more comfortable I.e your place. And then do the same at your place.
[–]CptHoytUdall 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Be direct. Never hide your intentions because women pick up on it pretty quickly. In my experience women appreciate the direct approach. Being direct is a clear sign of confidence.
You can be direct without being explicit or vulgar. Simply saying "I want you!" Women are turned on by a man who knows what he wants and isn't afraid to say it. Saying " I want " is a sign of both of these traits. This is assuming you get past the kiss.
[–]EARLY20RAG3R 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take her out to drinks close to her place, initiate physical contact asap.
Once you start kissing her and tension starts building up ask her if she wants to get out of there, works for me
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