How do I deal with this alpha?

Bigjohnthug · 2016-02-19T02:56:37+00:00

Three options:

1) The classic agree and amplify. "I'm just looking for the right girl to take my virginity." Then ignore him and AA with the girls "you guys know how most girls are, just wanting sex... I want a classic romance, with flowers and serenades." Smirk. Easiest but least awesome.

2) Classic misinterpret. "Bro, I get what you're saying but... you're just not my type." then anything he says just ramp off that until he gets annoyed/shuts up and pat his back and go "haha I'm just messing man don't sweat it." Shuts him down, pretty easy. Direct competition here though.

3) The reframe shit test: "Are you a player?" If he says yes or AA's then ask him for advice in mock seriousness. If he says no/misinterprets ie "I play videogames bro!" then done.

BONUS: Some people, SOME PEOPLE, can pull off a really confrontational style on this. It isn't about being bigger, it's about being able to handle the redirect the social awkwardness inherent of calling a guy out. You would NOT say "What's your problem?" Or "Why are you being such a dick?" because that's saying YOU HAVE POWER OVER ME. Raises his value to the girls. You want to say something like "Bro, it sounds like you're insulting me, but I can't imagine that. So just so we're clear, are you insulting me?" The difference is you're not whining there, you're saying "Yeah right bitch boy you really want to start this?" That is BY FAR the hardest of these to pull off.

No matter what you do though, shut him down then address the girls and ignore him. Even if you 'lose' being the first to reinitiate with the girls will sometimes make you 'win'. In future he should have some more respect for you after any of these so try to work with him.

Squirell_Nutkin · 2016-02-19T01:35:29+00:00

Point out that he is far from alpha in every way. His need to make fun of you underscores his deep and pathetic insecurity.

A true alpha doesn't need to put others down to put himself up. The guy is a pathetic loser.

Deal with him by pointing this out in front of his pussy posse, ask him why he is afraid of you.

supermanshazam · 2016-02-19T17:11:52+00:00

Never play the power game, he's looking to start trouble. Classic bully scenario, he's baiting you, he's insecure. Stop reacting, it kills the game and he will get bored and find someone more fun

zeusthabomb · 2016-02-25T14:24:30+00:00

How about break his fuking face and take his place? oh sorry this isnt the wilderness. You have toons of good advices on top.

undniable · 2016-02-19T02:15:06+00:00

Make fun of him for being immature. Seriously, that's some high school shit.

Title	How do I deal with this alpha?
Author	AkshajK
Upvotes	1
Comments	9
Date	February 19, 2016 1:18 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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