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[–]jobbo321 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Don't be fat. Stop wearing glasses and wear lenses. Get a haircut every 3 weeks or month. Have good skincare. Don't stink.
Those are all the major points. All the other points (style, muscles) are minor that marginally help. You only do the minor points for yourself, not with the expectation of getting women.
[–]ZachMoore88 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
No glasses?
[–]jobbo321 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Nah, they hide your face which makes it subconsciously harder for people to connect with you.
Everyone who wears glasses always looks better without them, it's a simple boost.
[–]Extension_Ad2683 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not exactly true. I know some people in which it adds to intelligence but keeps attractiveness. This I'd usually because they are already really attractive.
Also, seeming more intelligent would add to attractiveness.
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[–]United-Mud2219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
5’11 brown dude, lift on and off
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[–]United-Mud2219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’ve switched up my fashion a few times and have it up, I worked like an idiot on my fitness and then gave it up, I worked on my posture, the way I spoke and on what I said but nothing worked and I just got demotivated and gave up
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[–]United-Mud2219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Mostly social circle - cold approach doesn’t seem to work for me in a romantic sense I still never know what to say and how to talk
Never did dating apps cause never clicked pictures of myself cause of the above post
So social circle it was and honestly that also kinda sunk real quick Now I’m in a place where I feel scared of the situation and the judgement that comes after
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[–]United-Mud2219 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What are some of these hobbies?
[–]highendhobo 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Indoor bouldering (rock climbing with no ropes), not exactly a woman dominated sport but I would say close to 50/50 at least in my area.
It's a very social sport, ppl constantly chat about the proper technique or "beta" for a route. Very easy and almost preferable to approach strangers and talk and share route reading tips etc. between attempts. Also very couraging atmosphere for new ppl entering the sport. If you're new you just keep asking tips and ease into a conversation that way. Also the girls are very fit and hot.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Why not date ugly motherfucking women…?
[–]shared0 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good question 🤔
[–]ShortStuffV2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I took a quick peek at your post history since I like to make sure I'm not dealing with terminal inceldom and it seems like you got at least something going for you
Just don't be that guy and rationalize like "oh she's drunk and that's the only reason she was interested"
I'd be happy to peep your pic, you might try /r/truerateme or /r/amiugly, but don't lean too hard on advice from internet strangers, it isn't as objective as you might like to think
[–]highendhobo 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Being lean (especially in the face) is massive. Looking at my old pics when i was 10kg lighter I look so much better, with a good jawline and everything. Derek from MPMD has pointed out this same thing in many of his videos.
Fix your hair like others have pointed out, find out what works for you, this is easier said than done though because your barber can't always tell. When you find your cut it will boost your confidence, it did for me.
Find clothes that fit your body type and proportions, it make you look taller... you can always look taller unless you're like 6'5. You can find a lot of videos on YT about this.
Go on a dating app, it's so much easier to meet someone IMO. I just entered the free market after a very long relationship and it's a godsend.
[–]United-Mud2219 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I do feel like I gained weight on my face - how do I get it out? I’ve started running regularly to drop some weight and get some sweat going so some life comes back into my face but don’t know what else I can do - and have zero idea about cosmetics
[–]MateANoob 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Sadly you can't choose where you lose the weight. I have lost about 35 pounds in 6 months and my face changed a lot. Start counting your calories, but don't choose too big of a deficit.
[–]United-Mud2219 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I also don’t feel confident on dating apps - I just don’t know how to get them to work or if there’s enough to me at this point you know
[–]MateANoob 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I feel like life is awesome for me right now and I dont concentrate too much on getting a gf. Im wprking on myself both mentally and physically, I am not rushing it.
[–]United-Mud2219 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I’m happy to know that man. It took a lot for me to pull myself out of the slump I was in and get into some decent habits, I just hope I start seeing results soon
I’ve been doing a deficit for a while - calcs say I burn almost 23-2500 calories a day (without workout) but I’m good with eating only one meal and a snack - never more than a k calories
[–]MateANoob 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good for you, I am currently 11% bodyfat, and getting hungry all the time. Basically I have to eat every 5 hours or so
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You can PM me your pic, I'm gonna give you my honest feedback.
[–]mseand 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Watch Queer Eye. Helps with every aspect
[–]MaverickLeonhart 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can help you with it with no issues. DM whenever you want :)
[–]mrblack-- 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If jack Harlow can do it, anyone can.
Go to the gym Get a new haircut that SOMEONE ELSE recommends Dress better
And if you want to fast track it find a celebrity that’s your height, skin tone and hair texture and copy them boom
[–]hagakurejunkie 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lower your bodyfat, get a haircut that works for your head, grow facial hair, chew lots of gum for hours a day to build your chin and jaw, lift at least 4 days a week WITH AN ACTUAL MUSCLE GAINING PROGRAM and tan. Lift for a year. Stick to a hardcore diet for a year.
If you have to, do a cycle if you're some shrimpy birdchested fuck and eat fucking REAL food like meat and vegetables and sweet potatoes. Drink lots of water. If I see you with a soda, I'll come over there and smack what's left of your teeth out.
Get your hormones checked by a doctor, join a TRT clinic if you have low test.
Join an MMA gym and learn to handle yourself. Confidence is gained from being capable, not some book.
Guys out here say they've "tried everything" then come to find out they've done a big fat nothing.
Run at this shit for a whole year and then come back and tell us nothing works.
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