How do I get over the idea of interrupting someone's day?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-03-15T23:33:26+00:00

If the man of her dreams interrupted her day because he found her interesting and wanted to possibly start a relationship with her, wouldn’t she open to it?

99% of women wouldn’t mind. There is always that 1% of women who say no, but they just wanna feel special by saying that.

So the problem is not so much that you are interrupting her day or not, the problem is you feel as if you are not good enough to interrupt her day.

You don’t feel like the kind of guy that she would dream about, and a such you don’t feel like you have earned the right to interrupt her day.

But how would you know you are not the man of her dreams if you don’t even approach her? You are just assuming things.

Maybe you are the man of her dreams, and the only way to find out is by approaching her and interrupting her day.

If you don’t feel you are good enough, that’s probably due to low self-esteem. So it’s all in your head.

And at the end of the day, if she wasn’t interested she will just quickly dismiss you, so even if you take 2 mins of her time it’s not like it’s that big of a deal for her to have wasted those 2 mins.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-03-15T23:32:50+00:00

Imagine you're a huge celebrity. Do you think she would feel interrupted if you came over to talk to her? Of course not, because it's going to be a worthwhile interaction for her. At the very least, she's gonna get a story to tell afterwards. Everybody wins. Everybody's happy.

I would wager that most of your "considerate" behavior is really a reflection of low self worth. You're walking around thinking that what everyone else wants is more important than what you want. That you're just in their way.

Your game will massively elevate when you realize that she wants to meet an awesome guy and that you could be that awesome guy for her. Everybody wins. Everybody's happy.

Realistically speaking, you're probably not that guy yet. Your social skills probably need a lot of work. (outer game) and you also need to work on your mindset (inner game) to become comfortable with the idea that women will want to meet you.

Czekraft · 2022-03-16T02:15:36+00:00

A good flirt knows an opportunity when they see one, even when they need to create one. Pay attention to signs and body language as that can tell you if someone is receptive to talking.

You don't have to talk to someone that has headphones on. You only have so much energy, and positive vibes create more energy, so listen to your gut in who you choose to flirt with and be open to how you can improve future interactions.

5_7pickup · 2022-03-15T22:15:51+00:00

Then do night game and interrupt their night instead

Calamity__Bane · 2022-03-16T01:12:40+00:00

A fun conversation is not a waste of time, it’s at worst a pleasant distraction and at best the beginning of an adventure.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-03-16T03:02:51+00:00

Your problem is low self esteem and lack of self worth.

Title	How do I get over the idea of interrupting someone's day?
Author	lordbyronite
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	March 15, 2022 10:11 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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