How do I prevent the friendzone?

kankerleider · 2024-02-14T07:59:25+00:00

Make a move, go for physical contact or even the kiss

garnageman · 2024-02-14T08:12:55+00:00

Make a move go for the kiss

theseoulplayer · 2024-02-14T10:16:49+00:00

Make your intentions clear from the get go. Everything from the way you talk to her, your choice of venue, what you say, how you respond to her, all of it comes together to show her that you aren't interested in being friends. You want her to feel like you're interested in her and checking her for compatibility, which you are. Don't shy away from making your feelings known, but it's ALWAYS better to show instead of tell. If it's abundantly clear that you're interested romantically, then you will either get rejected or succeed, but either way, you don't end up in the friend zone.

If the F-word (friend) ever comes up, you stop the conversation there and say, 'Wait a second, just so that we're clear, I'm interested in you as a man and a woman, not as friends. If I didn't make that clear, my bad, that's on me, but this is where we are now. So if you want to hang out and see how things go between us, cool, if not, that's cool too but I'm not interested in being friends.' Not angry, not butthurt, just stating a simple fact. Same as you would if you showed up for a job and they thanked you for volunteering, you would stop things and clarify immediately.

mr-Hi-T · 2024-02-14T08:52:25+00:00

showed I'm attracted to her

By doing what ?

Remember the friendzone is the end zone. Thats a mantra.

Btw The way you appeal to her emotions is to either a) to make her excited or make her mad.
Disagree with something.

She says "I liked the Barbie movie".
You: The barbie movie was pure shite.

Her: Why?

You: the premise behind it was ridiculous.

At this point she will either agree if she is submissive and like you or disagree.
Either state is good.(This is actually something I used for real).

I learned this from my Dad. When my mam asked for something he would initially refuse but eventually give in.

This is pure game.

Women are really turned on by men who challenge them because its so rare.

Google or chatGBT masculinity or how to be a sexy man

All your answers are there. Be a sexy man. You may have to reinvent yourself but theres no such thing as "self" as each and every person in your life views you different.

Nobody will tell you this because no one has a clue here.

JaidenPouichareal · 2024-02-14T10:13:04+00:00

To prevent is to be direct on what you want

MrAnonPoster · 2024-02-14T10:35:22+00:00

Sleep with them

VrilHunter · 2024-02-14T08:26:31+00:00

Your choice of activity should be something where you can establish physical touch / kino escalation. Only through that you can build upto a kiss, which is a pretty good sign of romantic interest. No girl will ever kiss you if you dont get het comfortable with touching you in non sexual ways.

mister_k1 · 2024-02-14T18:05:29+00:00

wear a t-shirt that says "DON"T FRIEND ZONE ME"

hecatonchires266 · 2024-02-14T07:34:31+00:00

If you don't want that kind of advices you outlined above, then how do you expect to learn? Advice comes in different forms and it's left for you to grasp and understand what it means and subsequently apply them. If the girls want you simply as a friend there's nothing you can do about it unless at least one of them wants something more with you because she likes you. You'll have to choose the one that shows real interest in you and then make a play for her by showing her you also share / feel the same and would like to go on more dates with her. Then hopefully things will proceed naturally to the romantic phase.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-14T16:16:44+00:00

You prevent the friendzone by never putting yourself in it in the first place. The friendzone exists because you did something to put yourself there. Don't be indirect with women. When you approach them, you need to establish at some point (either in the beginning or during the conversation) , that you are romantically interested in them. There can't be any ambiguity.

Also, if you're hanging out with women, you need to be physically escalating with them because that's the difference between a platonic friend and a romantic interest in sex/physical intimacy.

When you first meet these women, let them know that you are romantically interested. When you ask them to hangout, make sure it is either framed as a date or she understand that you are interested in her romantically. If you don't do this and don't escalate, but be flirty, you're just another platonic guy friend.

This article discusses how to approach women directly: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-direct-game?r=31tj3q&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

This article discusses how to physically escalate with women: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-physically-escalate-with-women?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

Downtown_Rooster6552 · 2024-02-19T04:41:52+00:00

Stop doing girlfriendy shit for one. Fucking badminton? Do something that’s going to turn her on. Something that usually leads to sex afterwards, or implies sex.

You avoid the friendzone by making your sexual interest clear. You don’t have to be gross about it, but don’t pretend like your aren’t trying to fuck her. She knows you are. Most women assume that when a man goes out of his way to spend time and talk with her that he’s just trying to fuck. Don’t be dishonest, but more importantly don’t allow her to waste your time. That means don’t be on the phone listening to her problems. Don’t be coochey coo with her. Don’t be doing shit her gay best friend would be doing for her. And if she brings up the lets be friends thing, let her know that you think that’s a waste of your time and not in your interest. Basically refuse the trap.

Title	How do I prevent the friendzone?
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Date	February 14, 2024 7:17 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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