How do I reject someone without being rude?

Uoger · 2021-09-22T00:51:22+00:00

Just tell her that you’re not interested. Nothing rude about it. If you wanted to be an asshole you’d leave her on read purposely or lead her on. A more subtle way would to tell her that you’re glad she’s your friend. Women aren’t stupid and will catch on.

Woujo · 2021-09-22T05:05:57+00:00

Did she ask you out? If she just DMed you, have a conversation with her. You can just let the conversation run its course and then don't contact her after that. If she asks you out, you can say "no thanks I see you more as a friend."

DoctaNofuchsgiveth · 2021-09-21T21:24:11+00:00

Is she trying to flirt with you hard? Then I’d say be direct and say oh you know thanks and all and you seem cool but I see you in a platonic way or something like that

loofyd · 2021-09-21T22:58:02+00:00

Wish i had this kind of situation lol

As for advice, be direct even if you're being polite so that there's nothing confusing to her and she knows what you mean

Dazzling-Being245 · 2021-09-22T03:05:06+00:00

If you aren’t interested in anything just let her know and say it to her. Don’t be an enigma and distant. Girls like being told what you are thinking straight up.

nuc1earwessels · 2021-09-22T19:19:34+00:00

Tell her "It is but a shadow and a thought that you love, I cannot give you what you seek"

Works every time.

donnybdonnyb · 2021-09-21T23:14:30+00:00

Leave it on read she’ll get the message

jankybusinessman · 2021-09-22T04:11:52+00:00

Is she chunky OP?

gbizzle2 · 2021-09-21T23:55:11+00:00

Just flirt with her as practice.

yesiforgotmyname · 2021-09-22T07:51:59+00:00

Meet up but have atleast four of your friends there (secretly) and then pretend like he is going to kidnap you. That will make him leave for good and it's not rude its just #metoo

devnasty009 · 2021-09-22T08:22:49+00:00

Tell her your into someone else. WTF WAS THIS POST??! This is seduction, not r/tryingnottogetlaid

Mrator · 2021-09-22T08:39:12+00:00

Just say it she’s fat

GotThaAcid5tab · 2021-09-22T08:52:08+00:00

Just say you’re really attractive but I don’t have those kinds of feelings for you

fuzzyballs69420 · 2021-09-22T18:28:08+00:00

Rejecting someone isn't in and of itself rude. Start by giving her an out. "I don't know if I'm reading these signals correctly". Then hint at what you think they mean "it seems like you might be looking for..." "If I'm reading that correctly I'm not interested". Then 9/10 she says fuck you and 1/10 she's cool. Good luck :)

el-jugo · 2021-09-22T19:54:11+00:00

bro why do u care if u come off rude. Just dm her say sorry im not interested and leave it at that. Just be straight up with her and if that comes off as rude to her then its her problem not yours

IamtheDanr · 2021-09-23T00:53:56+00:00

Say your just not into them

Title	How do I reject someone without being rude?
Author	Microbusero_chaca
Upvotes	13
Comments	54
Date	September 21, 2021 9:20 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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