How Do I Seek Happiness?

bl1y · 2014-01-26T20:55:14+00:00

First, the world is not pitted against you, and what you described doesn't even suggest that. I see cars I want but can't afford every day, but does that mean the world is contriving both to make awesome cars and to keep me from buying them? No, of course not.

Second, you need to start taking action in your life.

brazenlyconservative · 2014-01-28T03:13:11+00:00

You might find David De'angelo / Dr. Paul's material about having a Healthy Personal Boundary will help you with this situation.

But outside of professional material, I would say that you're too dependent on external factors for your own personal happiness. You need to find a way to be happy with yourself regardless of the world going on around you. This is a pretty tall task - one that many people will go their entire lives without finding an answer. But it is possible.

Furets · 2014-01-27T00:46:04+00:00

Happiness is a journey, not a destination.

cody_au · 2014-02-01T18:34:11+00:00

The happiest people don't think about or analyze shit. I'm not going to call them dumb because they're not. But they're not usually deep, logical intellectuals like us.

If you want out from suffering the way is to do an Eckhart Tolle and give up thinking about thinking about thinking (not a typo). That's all there is to it. Literally. IMHO anyway. Give it a try (but don't buy into all of his other shit).

PowerSeductionWar · 2014-01-26T21:10:05+00:00

The world is against you if you believe it is. You're right.

BUT

If you think the world isn't against you, you're also right.

The world is exactly as how you choose to see it. If you believe you aren't the type of person that can get the girl you want, you'll behave as such and you won't get her. Hell, you might not even talk to her because you believe you aren't good enough.

But if you're stupid enough to believe that you can get her, then you will act in ways that will actually help you in getting her.

Self-fulfilling prophecies.

How do I seek happiness in a world that is seemingly pitted against me?

You change your negative views of the world into more positive ones, and embrace the challenges you'll have to go through. You really do get what you deserve, if you want more then do more.

Title	How Do I Seek Happiness?
Author	kingxxxman
Upvotes	1
Comments	6
Date	January 26, 2014 8:52 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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