how do i stop hating women?

Irishguy317 · 2015-08-05T15:52:19+00:00

Why do you "hate" women?

Why have you only had sex twice? How did you come to find these women? What was shit about these experiences, and how could it have been better?

Tell us a little about yourself.

Nilocs_Best · 2015-08-05T16:35:36+00:00

No offense, but you obviously have some issues that you need to resolve. I'd suggest seeing a therapist, they do good work and can probably help you out.

Gh0st1y · 2015-08-05T16:12:51+00:00

I'd say join a monastery

Murfdigidy · 2015-08-05T16:50:25+00:00

Just some advice people who make sweeping generalizations about any group are always wrong. Typically the person making the generalizations is the one that needs changing not "them". Listen man I get it, you're frustrated but saying you hate woman won't make you happy, all it will do is perpetuate the problem. What you need to do is list the reasons why you hate woman, and what you'll find that it all centers around you. It's not them you hate, deep down its yourself.

Almost every problem in the world stems around the person staring back at you in the mirror. So you need to change your perception of the world and women and take a bigger look at improving yourself and self image. Once you do your attitude will change for the better and you'll begin to see the world in a whole new light.

I did not get laid until late 20s, people were thinking I was gay because I hadn't had a girlfriend for many years. I was a total loser with women and had all the delusional thoughts...women suck, they don't understand me, what is so wrong with them!?!? But I came to realize it wasn't them it was me and my delusion, it was me that needed to change, not them. Now I'm 36 and married to a beautiful 5'10 Swedish blonde. But it took many years of bettering myself, bettering my attitude to get this way. If I wasn't married I'd have zero problem hooking up with most any women, I just have a lot of game now, I was just a late bloomer.

Pick your head up, get some help, read how to improve your perspective, improve your attitude and then get into learning how to attract women, but start with self improvement books, or get a coach.

ThrowawayPUA · 2015-08-05T21:56:19+00:00

You are misinterpreting your feelings. You don't hate women. You hate yourself. Your expression of hostility towards women is merely an outwardly directed form of your own self-hatred.

You need to accept yourself and learn to resolve your inner game problems.

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2015-08-06T03:21:02+00:00

sometimes I feel that way too because us guys are still expected to make the first move, do the approaching and asking out, be the initiators, I love this video right here, this guy sums up the pain, frustration guys have to go through: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=91SlnIVDFso

netakomega · 2015-08-05T18:50:17+00:00

maybe monastery is good. i don't know. i don't know what it takes. marrying an average looking Muslim woman might be one option. to try to be a hermit might be one option, and then to try to stop thinking about women, but I'm afraid I might regret that choice later in life. I'm not sure sleeping with a lot of women or having girlfriends is good for your spiritual growth, even though that seems to be what a lot of people in this thread are talking about, getting girlfriends. This thread was about hating women, not about fucking women or getting girlfriends.

Title	how do i stop hating women?
Author	netakomega
Upvotes	0
Comments	33
Date	August 5, 2015 3:40 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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