How do you deal with constant rejection?

hardly_incognito · 2016-11-30T09:26:30+00:00

but I am sure If I keep trying ill be good eventually

You know your answer, there's no get out of jail free card. It's painful at first, but this is part of the process. The journey is of greater importance than the end, and there will come a day when you'll long to be where you are right now.

jagemon · 2016-11-30T10:11:43+00:00

How old are you really? It takes some time to become comfortable with yourself so if you are in your early 20's I wouldn't stress about it. If you get matches on fe. Tinder your looks shouldn't be an issue. Now people say that looks don't matter and while it's somewhat true but it's not entirely true. So if you get matches, looks are ok. Thats where genes play the part as well as hard work to groom yourself.

The rest is personality and your interaction or something of that nature so you better look critically on where you may have gone wrong at different parts of the conversations. It takes some social calibration to understand where the discussion has gone wrong. If you dont get these points yourself, you need to provide some examples or ask your friends of their opinion.

readonlyuser · 2016-11-30T13:27:04+00:00

Rejection is a part of the process, no matter how good you are. It's actually a positive - on a small scale, it's self disqualification based on irreconcilable differences, and on a large scale, it's indicative that what you're doing isn't working.

Kurt_Kobain · 2016-11-30T15:43:30+00:00

If you think you have it bad, check my post history.

Murfdigidy · 2016-11-30T16:06:11+00:00

Need to work on being social, talk to girls at the market, or in the mall. I'm not even saying pick them up, just start conversations. The key to the game is getting comfortable having conversation with girls, then and only then can you begin to work skills on seducing them

imkingcash · 2016-12-03T04:10:36+00:00

Stop focusing on the girl, focus on being comfortable talking to and approaching different women. Always outdo yourself. Talk to hotter and hotter women. When you get comfortable talking to the "9s and 10s", the average-looking women (average, but attractive to you) won't stand a chance. It's all in your head. You'll be shocked how having this confidence has women attracted to you. You may not even notice but they may notice you because you are always surrounded by attractive women. In their minds they may think, "I can't compete with that". When you go up and talk to them, they'll feel special because it seems like you surround yourself around nothing but beautiful women. Try it and you'll be surprised by the results.

Title	How do you deal with constant rejection?
Author	SkullH4T
Upvotes	2
Comments	7
Date	November 30, 2016 7:29 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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