How do you improve smooth talking?

BubbleFFA59 · 2021-11-01T01:57:07+00:00

It’s not what you say, but how you say it.

Tone of voice makes or breaks slick talk, you could be saying pure bs but if your tone of voice emits confidence, assertiveness, and calmness, people will want to hear you talk, specially women.

You can emit these things by just saying what you mean and mean what you say with your voice and the intention in mind of slick talking while not trying to slick talk, simply because when you have an intention in mind your actions will align with it, for example: when people are horny and want to fuck their tone of voice change and become more seductive to entice their partner.

I said “the intention in mind of slick talking while not trying to slick talk”, only because when you try instead of letting things flow naturally you will come off as a tryhard trying to impress someone.

Delivery, the way you say words can make you give off friendly vibes or I’m tryna fuck vibes or what ever vibe you want to establish , mix the speed of the delivery of words based on the mood. For example: if you’re in close proximity with a gal, your word delivery should not be fast and your tone of voice should be calm and assertive rather than saying things fast with a tone that has no bass/deep, all high pitch.

Also, people will reciprocate the vibe you give off, so if you’re calm and relaxing while talking she will also be calm and relaxing and the conversation will naturally flow and you appear to be smooth at talking, but if you’re trying to talk smooth intentionally, she will sense that and the vibe won’t click.

alaxoskl4 · 2021-11-01T07:07:56+00:00

Stop doing shameful activities or thoughts > you'll not be ashamed of you > mental acrobacies > spontaneity

You'll feel safe that anyone who can see through your soul won't find anything shameful, will find abundancy and great things you are proud of.

My shameful activity was (still is) porn, constant masturbation, objetify women, not being able to defend (phisycally) myself, etc etc.

Also, and this concept is the most important. You can't be spontaneous or not spontaneous, it is not black and white, in my gold days (3 months before COVID) I had days where I was feeling down but the most days I was feeling pretty good and spontaneity was there.

burncushlikewood · 2021-11-01T04:11:43+00:00

Read and write, keep a game log, you'll get better the more you practice confidence is key to a successful conversation/interaction, watch movies, hang with friends, learn to listen

recursivePasta · 2021-11-01T16:44:56+00:00

Turn off your filters, say whatever thing you notice about the girl. Even it can be offensive, you can get away with way more than you think by being playful.

Keep escalating the conversation, dont stay flat the whole time

Keep notes of lines you come up with, the odds are you are gonna say the same stuff a lot of the time, why not just write it down and use it when you are not smooth this one day.

Take pauses and let the girl talk too, like pause for 2 sec after each statement.

stopwastingmytime81 · 2021-11-01T05:40:08+00:00

Active listening.

Suspicious-State · 2021-11-01T10:20:10+00:00

Check out tykwandoe's pimp or simp series on youtube

SnappyCapricorn · 2021-11-01T09:17:07+00:00

Maybe treat women like human beings rather than toddlers or toys.

Title	How do you improve smooth talking?
Author	Dominos-is-good-
Upvotes	137
Comments	23
Date	November 1, 2021 12:07 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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