How do you stop comparing yourself to other guys?

ThrowawayPUA · 2014-01-20T14:58:13+00:00

Look at the average of all the guys. Are you more interesting, more attractive than half the guys in the room? That means you are welcome in any group conversation or interaction, since you are more likely a better choice than the next guy who comes along. This is not a very high threshold.

K1ng_W1zard · 2014-01-20T10:28:19+00:00

That's terrible. Idk man, I personally constantly compare myself to other guys. It's how I get better. I'll actually send myself texts reminding myself of things I saw another guy do that I want to do better.

But let's remember... We are all of the same species. Generally speaking we are born with the same anatomy and shockingly similar psychology. Most importantly we are all blessed with the ability to IMPROVE. If you feel yourself to be inferior then you have work to do to make yourself the best at what you are. Along the way you'll compare yourself less and less. Best of luck.

enriquex · 2014-01-20T12:17:43+00:00

There's no easy fix mate. It comes with the i don't give a fuck frame of mind

Luckyluke23 · 2014-01-21T03:47:19+00:00

you have to realize that, everyone has a journey to take. this is your journey. Not there's but yours.

you have to realize that, you are not above the process [ of game].

though it seams to me you are just doing this not to approach.

2014-01-20T20:58:42+00:00

Honestly it doesn't matter at all, but it's all about sample size.

I've been doing this for awhile now and I can look back and remember situations when I was in a seriously target-poor environment (i.e. bad ratio), and I saw better looking dudes either chilling alone or talking to less attractive women, and I went home with one of the hotter ones.

Don't try to stratify everything, don't overthink it. Just act. Do this long enough and perception starts to resemble reality.

I don't enter a room with 30 guys and 8 girls, only 3 of which are hot, and think "wow my odds suck here". I just launch into it and totally ignore the environs and it seriously works. You'll start to think of yourself as being immune to all the rules and, by extension, you will be.

thehigheststatusmale · 2014-01-20T18:14:39+00:00

Deal with your insecurities.

2014-01-20T20:01:20+00:00

Stop being so beta.

Title	How do you stop comparing yourself to other guys?
Author	giffengoods
Upvotes	12
Comments	9
Date	January 20, 2014 10:21 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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