How do you talk romantically?

Dandys3107 · 2025-03-15T10:57:17+00:00

Think about triggering various emotions with your words and topics. Bring up sexual tension, mystery, challenge, generally some playfulness into your conversations. Remember that female nature is significantly different in some aspects, they won't be satisfied just with balanced, logical and informational interactions, you need to spice things up and tickle her sexual and emotional appetite to keep your relation healthy and thriving.

StrikingImportance39 · 2025-03-15T14:34:41+00:00

Here some practical things when it comes to romantics which I personally do. It’s not really about talking but doing.

Show that u are missing her when she is not around.

Text in the morning “I missed you”
Text in the morning “I was thinking about u”
Text in the morning “I had dream about u”
If she goes to work/trip/party etc and u have to wait for her at home. Instead, wait at bus station, train station, or just outside rather inside.
Always give a hug when u meet her.
Make your hugs special by squeezing her 30% tighter and longer than your family member.

Showing support for each other.

When u feel down text her ”I wish u could be here with me”
When she feels down text her “I wish I could give u a hug”
When she feels down and u are with her actually give a hug.
When she is down don’t give any advices even if she is wrong just listen and say “Everything will be okay, I got u”
When u feel down put your head on her thighs and let her play with your hair.

Showing appreciation. The idea is to do something for her without expecting anything in return. Just because u want to.

When she comes back from work, trip, whatever prepare her favourite meal.
When u go outside, once in a while go to her favourite place and buy what she likes and bring home. For no special reason or occasion.
Prepare bath for her with candles, music, soap etc.
This one is really cool because is very intimate. Wash her hair, body, shave the intimate stuff, etc.
Give her massage without expecting sex afterwards.
When she does house shores, do it together instead.
When she cooks, do it together instead.
Always scratch her back when she is sitting next to u. Even in public.

Showing sexual attraction. Note this works only in healthy relationship/sex life. The idea is to show her that u can’t get enough of her.

Waking her up and having sex in the middle of night.
Having sex randomly through the day.
Having sex when she is doing something else.
Touching her secretly in public. Like under the table.
Having sex in public places.

Cool ways to kiss her. I don’t know why but these things make them happy. Can’t really explain why they are better than just ordinary kisses.

When she is angry. Keep it cool. Slowly start walking towards her and kiss her without saying anything.
When u are outside point towards something and then put your hand on her chin and slowly turn it around and then kiss her.
Say u have a surprise, make her close eyes, take her hand, and then ask her walk towards u and then kiss her.
When walking on the street say “stop” then take one of her arm and spin her once, and then lean her on your knee and kiss her. Basically like in a movies.
When u are walking anywhere. During day time or night time does not matter. Randomly say to her “wait, come here”. Then take her hand. And once u are outside of public eyes give her make-out session. And then say “just felt I want to kiss u”.

Creating environment for relationship. This one may sound silly but it does affect the relationship. Also they have to be agreed on both sides.

When u go out together turn off the phones.
Don’t have TV in bedroom.
Don’t use phones 30min before going to sleep. The idea is that u should be talking together.
Don’t talk while she is on the phone. And the other way around.
Always keep kitchen and bathroom clean.
However, when it comes to other areas is better to keep them little bit messy. Like put one or two pieces of clothes on the floor.
Never have dinner in front of TV.
Have dining table in the house.
Always eat dinner at dining table.
Turn off the phone when having a dinner.
Buy all kind of puzzles to play together, rather playing candy crush or other games.
Try not to play MMO games especially multiplayer unless u both play the same game.

donttakeitinut · 2025-03-15T10:45:07+00:00

Praise her, tell how you miss her, after every good conversation, tell her how you glad she a good listener, she got a cute ass etc

Far-End470 · 2025-03-15T23:03:38+00:00

She wants comfort after a hard conversation. The question is, does she deserve that comfort? At the end of the conversation did you get the feeling she deferred to your leadership? If yes, give comfort. If not, deny her that until she behaves herself.

Conscious_Yak_1002 · 2025-03-15T10:47:22+00:00

It is called flirting.

"You lips are sweet as honey, you skin is soft as silk." It is not what you are saying, but emotion you add to it.

So instead of "I love you", you can try "being with you feels like a warm summer morning, when I was a kid...(and a story from you childhood)".

r_gui · 2025-03-15T18:38:59+00:00

The comment section here is disappointing. Many are suggesting you do more, but sometimes you don't want to do more. You want to do less with more effort. (Less is more)

Follow the "show, don't tell rule." Speak in comparisons and exaggerate everything.

Instead of "I think you're beautiful" say "that beauty can settle conflicts amongst worlds"

Be playful.

"You hear that?" Her: "Hear what?"

You: "The level of peace your voice brings to my soul. "

When you speak to her, think, "how can I help her see what I see"

Use history, legends, religion, and icons. Even bad ones can be used if you're creative. I.e: "Napoleon went conquering lands for power. I'd conquer the world for your touch."

It can be as sexual, aggressive, and sweet as you'd like. Talking romantic isn't sending stupid morning texts like this comment section is saying. It's being poetics enough to allow her to see a glimpse of what you see. It's being articulate and passionate enough to show her through imagination.

Just do simple things like that, and over time, it'll be a natural. Good luck!

great_account · 2025-03-15T23:09:20+00:00

Idk I just say whatever I feel like

Osiris_Raphious · 2025-03-16T00:36:03+00:00

Easiest way to learn about being romantic or speaking romantically, is to read some poetry...

It makes things easier, you can save phrases and topics and words, or straight up memories some poems. Women will love that. But more importantly if you cant reconcile your feelings into words, poetry already has decades even centuries of writers who have through and wrote down these things. Making it easier for you.

Gordenfreeman33 · 2025-03-16T02:10:33+00:00

Flirting like mix a little sexual energy in it and tease her

Shadow__Account · 2025-03-16T09:16:18+00:00

Old English, British accent.

cheapthrillsdoll · 2025-03-17T19:54:23+00:00

Proximity and practice. Proximity.. are you consuming romance (content , books, poetry, movies), or in an environment conducive to romance (clean dwelling, art, music, good food and drink). If not then that list of activities and actions is probably your first step.

Practice.. being romantic is more of an art, it’s not literal or figurative, it’s emotion, exaggeration, a metaphor, a day dream , it’s what could be or might be. Maybe she is the hottest bitch at the party? Maybe she is the best fuck of your life? do you wish this kiss would last forever, maybe? It’s like stretching dough 👨‍🍳

Example: you two are going to a wedding as guests. She’s done and ask that fatal, ¿how do I look?

You look great, amazing or whatever, it works. She would get wetter hearing that from a male guest at the same event. Women go off like parrots when some random guy pays them a compliment. Coming from a bf/hubby it’s a basic compliment.

Be romantic and exaggerate: you look breathtaking + -we should skip the wedding and work on our own love story. -They will mistake you for the bride(it’s been done but could work) -I’m my fall in love with you again - it reminds me of the first time I saw you.. tell some story about her being beautiful and (innocent or mysterious)

Title	How do you talk romantically?
Author	Turbulent-Apricot591
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Date	March 15, 2025 10:34 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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